do you still fling with your ex'es/ ex?????

In my own opinion fling is the sweet way of treating a person with whom you don't have commitment with.. I don't see that fling with no touches is bad because you are just trying to be extra sweeter. The problem will enter if what you are doing with your fling (ex) is beyond how you treat your present boyfriend.That think that is already cheating! But don't let other people specially your boyfriend caught you.. LOL!!!

NO.. Ex belongs to the past.. PLus, it's never a good idea to be remaining contact with them for some flings.. Because it wont be good, when either one party has a new bf/gf.. haha =D PLus, flings can change alot of things, and flings can get out of hand.. from normal flirting, it can lead to more touching, and lastly, making out.. haha =D It takes alot of self control, but because they are our ex, thus we do let our guard down, resulting in doing alot of wrong things.. lol =D

Hi acie_21 I don't know I still do that or not, but I have no intention to do that. I met my ex months ago and (I'm quiet surprise) we both talk nicely about new things around us, education, job, etc. We didn't talk about our last relationship and how can we break up in the past, etc. I don't know why, it's just fun, meet my ex, remember all the good and bad things that had already happened, then finally have a conversation just like we were best friend who haven't meet for a long time. I didn't fling and do't want to fling with him and so did him. We just being nice each other. After 2 years has passed, it seems childish to talk about our bad experience,or talk about the chances we go together again. We just let it go For people who do it, it's not a sin, I think. But it's strange. He/she is your ex. For me, decision to cut out the relationship is not a game or temporary. If you decide to end the relationship,there's no way back. So, if the person who do it hasn't married yet, it's still okay but strange and I personally difficult to tolerate it. If the person has already married, I think it's a sin

That entirely depends on attitude. I myself don't do flings because its not really my thing, although I would not treat it as a bad gesture. But then again, I hate it when I see people flirting with someone given the fact that she/he has a bf/gf, or even married.

Haha this topic is great.. I dont't fling with my ex's for me they're trash.. Joke.. I don't fling with them I want to get rid of them coz I want to forget the past. for me past is past. I'm happy with my girlfriend rightnow and I don't wan to hurt her..

well, first of all, i think its our nature to flirt/ fling around, like being nice or being polite some misundertood it as being flirty. like me, with my x, im still friends to them, while im currently dating someone, he jet jealous easily because i talk to my ex'es, and he misunderstood it as me being poilte them, i guess it depends on the person and the person who's looking.

hi acie! fling?no that's not my thing and i think its not proper especially that i'm married. i don't want to make things that make our marriage life in trouble. so fling is out of my mind. i'm happy with my husband so what's the used of fling with my ex'es. (",) happy mylotting!

no i will not do that because i will not let my husband do that to me too,since i don't like him doing that, then it's better that i won't do it too...i think this is not a sin but it maybe a cause of jealousy and quareling if my husband knows it.

Yes one of them. I aint in a full on relationship so i dont think it counts.

Not at all because I respect my boyfriend very much. I cut all the communications already and it is not good at all.

i don't know if i can call it a fling...i got connected to my ex through chatting.. what we do was just reminisce the old times...we're now both married but both our partners didn't know that we're still communicating that time..i think there's nothing wrong with,right?

well for me!its not good attitude of a person, specially your married already,its consider a adultery like you said its a sin.If you really love your partner at present you will be faithful to him/her.But for me my ex-bf were only friends because he has his own life me, i have my own two.

so you have a boyfriend and you fling, i am lost for words here,, but,, i only shows that you are the perfect for each other, like if you need to fling with someone else then you are not satisfied with your current relationship.

we barely saw each other after i broke up with my gf not to mention fling......

Gulity as charged i have only one true love. But i've fling before the relationship with that guy was short-lived but it was interesting. No touches it did create some tension between my boyfriend and myself... But once the fling stopped, the relatiinship between my guy and myself deepens and improved i think flings are something you vo into, no commitment something that would last abou 1-2 weeks??? :)

uhumm! are you serious about this? I strongly say NO because I don't want that this would be done also with my partner. Do not do unto others what you don't want them unto you...well, if this would be just okay with your partner and you to him then enjoy!....

I don't fling with my ex. I think it's not right to do so. Why fling when you are already committed. I think it could be considered a sin because you're cheating passively to your partner. You can be friends with your ex but not fling. It's different. And if you still do fling with your ex, I thin you don't really love your partner or not serious about your relationship.

i think that we shouldnt fling with others even with ex bcs we must respect the person with whom we are now. that person loves us and for sure we wouldnt want to know that he also was doing that. i think if we are happy in a relation there is no reason to do that and if we do is bcs we are not totally happy so the best maybe is break up. but do that i dont think is right we must love only the person we are with and if we really love that person we wont feel the need to fling^^

i myself still do,, im in a relationship now & i'm still flinging with my ex,, i don't know if im still inlove or i just want my ex to love me again or just for fun,,