Helping people sometimes gets you into trouble.....

Hello manong.... I have never faced a similar incident but what you say have a foundation and I have come across problems when it comes to helping others nowadays.... And especially if the case is serious that might even be dangerous or annoying and sometimes disappointing...So what I do is I try my best to stay away from helping others especially strangers as it may take me into troubles.... But I really appreciate what you did here...but what happened after ward is disappointing....

Actually I havn't the similar experience. we gain sth when we lose sth, I like this saying. That means sometimes we can perceive this world in a mild mood. All things you did will benefit you in a somewhat subtle way in the future. Anyhow, a good return deserves another! Because you are a great man with a good conscience. Best wishes to you!

Once I found a wallet at my window when I came home. I tried to find the phonenumber of the person, but could not. So I called the police... They questioned me as if I had robbed the wallet! There was no money in it. I know next time I find a wallet, I'l throw it in a mailbox so the post can deliver it to the police!

hello manong, I think you did the right thing. well, of course they need to detain you so that they can file a report and wanted to know what happened. it would have been self-fish of you to leave him behind, of course it might take you longer before you could go on your way because they needed to ask questions for you. i hope they didn't accuse you of anything.

surely, ur reasons for missing an important appointment was even more important because u saved a human life. i am sure the party u had an appointment with understood what u did and may have set another appointment in lieu of the aborted one. i have one experience which is a little similar to ur experience but no threat to life was involved. a distant cousin who was visiting from the US came into the bank i once worked for. i very well knew her face because during school vacations, i usually spent a week or two in their house in the city. when she came into the bank, she had an inquiring look as to whom to approach to encash a check. i bounced from my seat in front of the counter and called her. to make the story short, i identified her and guaranteed for her personal checks. it was a big amount of $500.00. a month passed and unluckily, the check bounced. i was terrified because i guaranteed for the check and in that case, will answer for its face value, plus charges. i had the luck to get in touch with her and she sent her brother who lives in our city to refund the amount of the bounced check. whew! boy, i was relieved. it didn't matter to me anymore having to pay for the overseas call that i made to inform her about the bounced check. see, sometimes helping people will put u into trouble. i surely have learned my lesson from that incident. (my late husband kept on teasing me about my uncalled-for hospitality and kindness, hahaha)

yes helping people sometimes gets us into problems.i personally experienced it.i had faced a lot of problems after helping my friend.i helped them as a friend but i didnt thought that it would become a problem for me .so guys plese think for a while if you are thinking to help others

Yes, helping others sometimes creates troubles for you. I have seen it happening to my foremer colleague many times. She was my good friend. She helps people without thinking about the risk associated with the help. She won't say 'No' to anybody. So, people started taking advantage of her. I hate it. I will help somebody only if I know that the person won't take advantage of me. My friend got into trouble many times by offering unnecessary helps.

I am glad to know that you still helped the man despite of your appointment. My mother is fond of helping people but in the end, she was always compromised because she was always betrayed by the people whom she helped. But she still help people regardless of what happened. i guess getting into trouble is not a reason why you should stop helping others.

I think you have done the right thing.Maybe you've missed your appointment or any other important things,but you've won yourself. And besides you won others' homage.

Well, i think you do the right thing, by stop and helping that guy. That's noble act that you do. Who knows if the help is too late and someone lifes is depend on it. It's about risking people lifes.. So good job for you! Have a nice day and happy mylotting!

Life and days have become more complicated now a days. We have made many new rules and regulations which at times may seem conflicting with basic humanity. Despite that rules are made for ensuring overall secured and safe stay in society. your filling up of the report is the part of those rules and regulations. However, it was nice to see that you helped that person. Its great. humanity is above everything, you showed.

Just remember anytime you interfere in a accident or crime, then you become a witness an have to fill out a report an be questioned. Even if not now then later for they could need you in court for insurance purposes even.

It's great that you helped out. Though if the guy was severely injured, you shouldn't have moved him. Never move an injured person! Call for help, and let the paramedics do all the moving and stuff. The only time you should move somebody is if you have to for stopping profuse bleeding, or giving CPR. Otherwise, you could end up making their injury worse. Could you go to the hospital, and ask them about him? I'm sure because of privacy reasons, they won't tell you much more than yes or no about his condition/survival. If you don't know his name, just ask about the guy that came in on whatever day and time, and they should know.