Lending money to friends but didn't get repaid

Yes, and since I already knew his attitude towards lending money, I never ever lend him another one. We are still friends, the only thing is that he cannot lend any money from me anymore. And what about the money he lend? there are lots of other ways I knew he can repay me. Its part of accepting who your friends are despite their attitudes. Its part of the game called "life".

an officemate of mine who happens to be my friend too, borrowed money from me, she said she's going to use it to pay for their electric bill and promise to pay me when she receives her next salary. When she received her salary, she did not bother to pay me and I was so shy to remind her about it. She did not pay me the money she borrowed from me and now it has been months since she resigned from our work. and i never heard from her again. i guess she was never really a friend to me in the first place.

Well, it happened to me before and I have learned my lesson. Now, I don't want to lend money to people even if they say that they will pay me later. Someone told me that if I want to lose a friend, I will lend him money so that he will hide from me. It is not embarrassing to ask for the repayment if they promised to pay. It is easy to borrow, but difficult to pay it. Therefore, it would be very ideal not to borrow money if we can.

I've met the case and asked my friend directly to pay meals for me and remind he or she that they need not to return my money back.Usually it works. They will soon give my money back.

yes, i have experienced that with one office mate. it must be two years ago that she hurriedly borrowed P100.00 from me. she said that she does not have money to pay for her fare for an official work. she said she will repay me as soon as she gets her allowance from the office. she promised to do that within the week. i had it written down in my desk calendar and i cannot forget that. she did not pay me back and i am shy to remind her about it or ask from her the repayment. that was two years ago. she might have forgotten that she borrowed money from me ... but i don't want to remind her now.

Yes, and I suffered the same fate with you. One of my friends have borrowed a small sum of money from me for about three months, he still doesn't show the disposition of returning back, and I'm ashamed to ask him to return money, because we have been friend for several years. So I have to turn down the level of our friendship and won't lend money to him again. However, it's a difficult task to refuse friends' requirments of borrowing money.