Just Because You're Pregnant...

this is not only one raeson to get marry that you are pregnant ,age is big reason bcz people use to think that if i will be over age so i will not get good partner and second reason is many people does not want to live alone they want happy life how about you?

My reason for getting pregnant is i am in love with my partner and he does love me too. I will marry him because i imagined myself growing old with him. So, for me pregnancy is not the main reason for partners to get married.

That depends on him. I love my boyfriend, I love him a lot, and if I were to be pregnant right now, I really do not know if we would get married. It all depends on him. If he is willing to be a real man about it all, then okay, but if not, then I will take myself and my baby, and do what my mom did, raise the baby on my own. Of course, I cannot get pregnant, so no worries. I have been on the pill for so long now that I think that it is medically impossible for me to get pregnant. I went on the pill because I had horrible menstrual cycles. That is another thing, even if I could get pregnant, there is no guarantee that I will carry it past the first trimester. Women in my family have a very hard time carrying children to full term. I was the only baby carried to full term, and even I was five days before my due date. Everyone else was either early, really early, or miscarried.

When I was pregnant with my oldest son, I was not married. The thought to get married crossed my mind at the time, but as my pregnancy went on, the relationship became more and more troubled. I did not marry him, and I would not have. I think that it is more important for a child to grow up knowing that both parents are happy rather than to grow up with parents who only got married because of the pregnancy and really do not get along.

Actually, this happens to me now. I am going to marry my fiance next month. She's also pregnant now for about 4 months. We are planning to wed by 2011 but we were just in a hurry to have a baby. I didn't blame anyone here and I'm still happy because I will now see my first child.

It,s my story. I married when I was pregnant. Of course I was 27 years old. To avoid scandals and issues from the society and ralatives were important reasons. But they were not the key reasons. I think if you want to get married. The following reasons you should know. 1, age( right age ) 2,money(enough money for a new family) 3,respansibility from you and your lover for a family and your baby 4,agreement from parents

well it all depends on the mutual undestanding of both the people. it might be a possibility that he may just be a flirt and got you pregnant by an accident. in such a case it is better that you don't marry him. but in case it was intimacy and love and happened by accident, you can get married since he should be responsible enough then to take care of the child too..

Well, I know what my answer would be because I found myself in that spot. I was divorced and raising my children on my own. My birthcontrol failed me and I found myself pregnant, unmarried and nearly 40 yrs old. I had deep feelings for the father but did not want to remarry. I definitly did not want him to marry me for the sake of the baby. We did talk about marriage but I am so glad we did not go forth with it as the relationship did not work out. My daughter is now 15 and I have no regrets at all about my choices.

No I wouldnt both my girls have been born out of marriage but they have the same father and me and their father will be getting married in april next year but because we love one another not because we have children. I dont have a problem with what others think im sure many will be looking down on me for having children out of wedlock but its worked for us we have a happy stable family home two wonderful happy little girls and I tell you its a lot more than some married in haste couples have.

I have thought of this before, and I think we will get married but only in civil court. I think I will postpone our church wedding, until after we had the baby, and that we had enough planning and all those stuff. I mean, I'm only getting married once, and I don't want to remember my wedding as one that is not planned because I got pregnant.. I still want it to be perfect and to be beautiful. and oh, if this ever happens, I know my boyfriend will be man enough to take responsibility. and I know he's gonna marry me.. Cause for the longest time, we had been planning to be married, but we just don't have enough money for it.

I think I would see to it that the guy is willing to marry me. because if I would be the one who would suggest of marriage and not the guy I would have a feeling of not being truly love. see to it that you will not regret anything after. Whether the guy is responsible and sensitive enough about your feelings. Coz if not then never mind marrying that guy. Anyway if you really love your child you could do a lot of things just to support her needs.

Well!there are some people doing that reason, they get married because she is pregnant.For me if ever i was pregnant with my boyfriend of coarse i will get married with him not just because i was pregnant,because we love each other and were in the right age already,sometimes getting pregnant is the first to come rather than they are thinking to get married, maybe its to followed that decision.There are some person they will not get married because maybe the pregnancy is only accident, and they are not prepared but its happened. Some women are liberated they dont like to get married even they are pregnant,for some reason the guy has no capabilities to take care of them.I have known person like that they have already 3 babies but they dont even get married, i dont the reason why?

I haven't experience this one so i'll just give my opinion. If I am in that situation and I and my boyfriend love each other I don't see any reason for us not to get married. But if the situation is,one party doesn't want to get married and has to do so because of "reputation" I don't think marrage is a good idea. On the part of the girl being pregnant is not a reason to let you self be stocked in such situation but if you love eache other..why not!!

I think despite being American different cultures shape our perceptions on what is right. In my culture (I'm American! but still), it is absolutely not okay to be pregnant before marriage. So if I were stuck in such a situation to be pregnant before marriage, I would make all attempts to marry the father of my baby to avoid shame on my family and discrediting my parents for raising me wrong. Its just our culture and it means nothing to the people of my culture whether we are Americans or not.

I don't think pregnancy is the right reason to get married. A couple thinking of getting married should be in love and think that they are compatible. It depends of their age and how committed there are. In my home country there are many single mothers. I was married for six years and then got divorced. It is wise to have a happy life and I would only get married if I thought I was fully compatible in love with the man and well as in love with him.

for me marriage its not the answer if your pregnant, your pregnant before marriage because you trust the guy and also love him so much, i believe getting married its always says in the right time and place,if both side was ready, and that girl or guy wants to spend their live with each others arm.

hi sexyposh. i would marry if i am pregnant. and i have to pregnant. if i am not married but pregnant, i can not go out to meet someone. otherwise, my mom would abandon me in this situation. and she would say much bad words on me. plus, she would find my boyfriend to command him to marry me. you see, a horrible mother.:)

it never happened to me ,and i wish it will not ,and i dont even have a gf?if it did happen ,i need to discuss this whith her and her parents ,it's not only my business then i would make my decision?anyway,that’s not good at all in china?

I think we have to get married, why ? because if not, the baby will sad or got shock when the baby realized that mum's baby was pregnant and father's baby leave and not going to marry, the baby will feel shame if meet to people or friends and usually the baby will not accept fact of his/her true parents. any comment ?

hmmm...actually im a aingle mom..i dont know about the others but for me i believe that getting pregnant is not the real reason why you have to get married...lol! based on my experience i am so greatful that i have never let myself fell down into regrets...sometimes getting married because you are pregnant doesnt answer the real score between the both of you..its not like you can always teach every lesson specially when it comes to adjustments... from my friends who have tried that, they told me alot of bad outcomes in which they still end up in finding themselves fall out of love... or making there lives miserable, sometimes getting pregnant without a father is not only a great challenge it is also a situation which makes a person more responsible in her every move.. marrying now a days is not a favor but for now it is something you must think a lot of times and, getting pregnant is not the heaviest reason you have to give consideration with...hey girl! you have your hands and feet! you have your brain and body! nothings really up to it...and who cares about those scandals and issues..telling you after you gave birth. those people who pushed you down? they were the first one who will laugh and enjoy the company of your baby... but it still depends upon youre decision but still you have to think a lot of times before you do...LOL!