life is so short...

China
October 21, 2009 8:12am CST
yesterday my grandma passed away...i do not know how to describe my feeling right now.. she has been lying on the bed for 4years and a half since she went to the paradise, though she wasn't know me during the time she got senile dementia .. i still can remember when i was young ,she brought me up,and how good she treat me! and now she 's gone ! sometime i think maybe it was a dream not realistic! do u have the same feeling like me?when some one die ,u cann't accept that was true! and how to get through the hard time!? thanks (my english is not good, i'm just trying to express my feeling in english!)
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5 responses
tarachand
@tarachand (3895)
• India
21 Oct 09
I lost my mother in early January this year and have still not gotten over the fact that I will never hear her voice, never see her face, feel her comforting presence, but then that is life. I try and convince myself often that this is the fate of all who are born, and try and console myself, but it is difficult. I am sorry for your loss and can only offer my condolences and wish you strength to overcome your loss.
joshua1987
@joshua1987 (20)
• China
21 Oct 09
i feel sorrow to hear that,i even could image if i lost my parents,probably i will be going crazy.it must be the most anguished thing in this world!i hope and i believe u could out of the distress soon! your mother in heaven will bless u forever! wish u best
tarachand
@tarachand (3895)
• India
21 Oct 09
Thanks for your good wishes! I am sure that your grandmother will be among those people, and will looking down upon you and blessing you too!
chevill
@chevill (316)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
i lost my dad 17 years ago. that time I was only 12. that's life! we all have our ending in this world just in different time and reason. others says the've done their missions. I hope everything will be okay for you and for your family.
joshua1987
@joshua1987 (20)
• China
22 Oct 09
thank u .. you will own a better life too!
xtin21bass
@xtin21bass (78)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
life's so short so do everything u want! =D
theagelimitisawful
@theagelimitisawful (30)
• China
22 Oct 09
you have to accept it.the pain feeling will gradually reduce unless sometimes you suddenly call her in mind.everybody have to study to accept unbelievable and unacceptable accidents in the world.
turborx15
@turborx15 (63)
• Bangladesh
22 Oct 09
That's a really sad news.I understand your feelings.Because i also fall this situation.My grandfather passed 3 years ago from now.Thats a very unbelieve able for me.Becaouse i love my grandfather so much.