Dose music really can mend a broken heart?

China
October 21, 2009 12:18pm CST
I didn't want to talk to anyone a few days ago,cause a girl left me.No one can understood me,I only can feel myself in music.What lift me up is music.Have you ever experienced ...?
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22 Oct 09
Some people says yes. And I'm one of them. Music really helps uplifts the spirit. It's quite amazing how music can do that.
• China
23 Oct 09
music is a very fantastic thing,full of power and magic
• United States
21 Oct 09
I don't know if music can actually mend a broken heart but it sure can lend a hand at lifting your spirits when you are down or depressed. Especially if you listen to music with a light uplifting beat to it. I am in my mid fifties so the music that makes me happy, you may not like, but Elvis Presley songs always tend to make me want to dance or sing and put me in a wonderful mood even if it only lasts for a little while. The music scores in most of his movies do the same thing for me. As for your broken heart, there is an old song (I can't remember the title of it right now) but it is sort of appropriate for this discussion I think. It goes something like this......only love can break a heart and only love can mend it again. Don't despair too long over your lost love Shuahor. You will mend and find another girl and hopefully you will have learned some things from the past relationship and the next one will be even better.
• China
22 Oct 09
It's very nice of you,thanks
• United States
21 Oct 09
Music is a very powerful way to heal the mind, the body and the spirit as well as the heart. Music is a great way to express oneself, and find comfort and solace in the melody and the lyrics. I don't find anything wrong with using music to lift you out of whatever deep emotion you may be feeling. Right now my father is dying and I use music to relax and calm down whenever the feelings of loss become too overwhelming for me. I love my father very much and losing him is ripping me apart. Music is helping cope with those feelings. Music is can truly mend a broken heart of any kind.
• China
23 Oct 09
Sorry to hear that,let's go away from our sorrows.Time still goes,we don't have to be living in the past.
• India
21 Oct 09
Hi shuahor, Yes Music is a good companion to me, No one can understand and sooth me like the music, I Love Music, It'll be with me when I'm angry, Happy, etc., what ever the situation maybe...!
• China
23 Oct 09
hope you happy...
@SouravRC (247)
• India
28 Oct 09
Music certainly can soothe your heart. Depends on what kind of music you are listening. As you may know music touches us emotionally, spiritually- so it has a big impact on our lives. I'm sure it can mend a broken heart and bring back the lost confidence and happiness.
• Indonesia
23 Oct 09
Yeah, I ever had.Music can express anything.When we feel down,disappointed,depressed more better listen rock or alternative or underground music.And singing loudly..till you fell more better.. and better.. try it. and remember, no woman no cry..:)
• India
22 Oct 09
yes music can help you. if you feel bad hear light melodious songs it gives you a power to take a dissension. if you feel happy hear a loud fast music and it may increase your happiness. music is a gift of god for all human being. have a nice day man.
@irene3184 (898)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
I agree that music can mend a broken heart and the only way to feel better when you listen to your favorite songs. You can lean to someone but sometimes we want to be alone and no one to talk to so we back up with our favorite music.
@Lcrkar05 (344)
• United States
22 Oct 09
Yes, music helped me get through my first two break ups. For music is the only way I can express how I'm feeling. I listen to different types of music depending on my mood,feelings, and what's happened to me. I listen to fun music when I'm happy, Sad music when I'm unhappy, and fun/danceable music when I'm happy and feel like dancing. Music helped me get through my break ups. Sometimes it made me cry, but I knew it would be okay and that I need to cry once in a while.
@czy6688 (27)
• China
22 Oct 09
yes, first,sorry to hear that,many people have expericed that ,music is a good medicine to you,as well as to many people,also i like it very much.just listenand do what you want .and you will be come out frow sorrow,hope you happy1
• Indonesia
22 Oct 09
Hi shuahor,nice to see you. of course,i ever and often feel like that. but, for the situation like that,i prefer to listen hardcore music,such as slipknot ! dont know why,im so relax when hear their music.
• United States
21 Oct 09
It happens all the time to me. Whether I have a bad day at school/work/practice, I always go home and listen to music. I think that music is good and can uplift anybody in any situation.