What do you feel when you're compared to others?

Philippines
October 21, 2009 9:09pm CST
What do you feel when you're compared to others especially if the person that is compared to you is different from you or has qualities greater than you? Like for example, I'm always compared to bestfriend because she's pretty and everything. Something like that? How do you feel?
5 responses
lyanne
@lyanne (60)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
Hi as for me i dont want to be compared to others.. Because i do believe every people has its own personality.. We can be good in other things and other people can be good at other things as well..
shhheila
@shhheila (1845)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
i would really feel down... and it will lower my confidence and self esteem... but im thankful that it didnt happen to me...
oink24
@oink24 (67)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
i feel embarassed when i got compared with others...
weird_oh_me
@LdeL0318 (6400)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
Insecurity will always set in in my case. Why should I be compared in the first place. I have my own qualities. I know I am unique. But then we cannot avoid to feel horrible at times like that.
rhan04
@rhan04 (307)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
I'll feel a bit uncomfortable. And maybe a little offended and annoyed. Like what everyone says, every individual is unique. Of course that person is different from you. She may have qualities that you don't have, but she doesn't have everything that you have either.