it's hard to say sorry....

@Craicha (801)
October 21, 2009 10:30pm CST
are you a person that sorry is just easy word to say if you get mistakes but your the person that always get mistakes and always say sorry.... me im not bcoz sorry for me it should have meaning...if i say sorry if i get mistakes, its really a sorry and i corrected my mistakes...i rather not say sorry if i don't mean it...!!!
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7 responses
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
Saying sorry is not a big deal if I know I'm at fault. It is better to say sorry to a person than be sorry that we haven't had the chance to say it when the person was still alive. We should not procrastinate. We all know that life is short. Anything can happen anytime. Let us not wait till we are left with no chance.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
hello friend, It's easy to say the word...but,the real essence is hard to believed in. Some people keep saying sorry and still keep doing the same mistakes,i can't see the logic in that case. They should learn to know the meaning of the word "sorry". And they should know the promise enclosed to that word sorry. These days,sorry is like a word being said...and never done.
@ucue2008 (924)
• Malaysia
22 Oct 09
I say sorry even I know its not mistake. I don't care, even though I am hurting inside. I just don't want to create enmity and enemy. But to that person, I will not able to be closed, and I know the relationship will not be like it used to be, unless I am really at fault, I admit my mistake and amend it. but if say sorry because I don;t want to make the relationship restrain, I put a note in my head, saying ; you cannot be close to that person.
@daliaj (5674)
• India
22 Oct 09
I don't mind to say sorry if I find out that I have done a mistake. I don't just say sorry as a customary, but I say sorry as a sign of acceptance of my mistake. Saometimes it takes time for me to accept the fact that I have done a mistake. Last week I had a big fight with my father over phone. After soemtime, I realized that I have hurt him so much and made a call to say sorry to him.
@borhan (1338)
• United States
22 Oct 09
It is better to say sorry many times. Generally i dont mind to tell sorry if i make a mistake. What i found that telling sorry does not make someone small. Rather it helps in easing the confusion and likely hassles. Thank you.
• New Zealand
22 Oct 09
Saying sorry goes along with forgiveness. I'd rather not say sorry to the hurt party yet if I still can't forgive and most importantly forget. You're right that some say sorry like bullet fast and don't mean it. I think that's just them saying that your being hurt is pointless and immature.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
22 Oct 09
Swallow all pride to apologize not as easy as turning the palm of his hand. some people choose to keep all his ego rather than admit his mistake. Sincerely apologize it was not easy. Because, first we need to make peace with yourself, admit personal errors. Acknowledging mistakes is to admit stupidity. Acknowledging stupidity, could mean lowering the prestige or pride. I thought I was someone who likes to apologize, if I really feel guilty. Unfortunately, I am also someone who often feel justified on many occasions. So, be my reality, including those who hardly apologized.