How to build relationship with ex Buddy ???
By newhotelus
@srikandi19 (3391)
Kuta, Indonesia
October 22, 2009 1:41am CST
When I at high school, I have a buddy, or should I say, an ex-buddy? The thing is, she is not talking to me because of an incident. You see, she has a crush on a classmate but doesn't have the guts to tell him.
One day, after school, I walk with the guy on errand and My buddy didn't know this, but unfortunately, he saw the guy and me on our way back to school after completing the errand.
As you might have guessed, she jumped to conclusions and now thinks I'm a backstabber friend who tries to take crush away. I don't want to lose her as a buddy, but I'm also offended that she could think so low of me.
What do you think I should do???
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3 responses
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
23 Oct 09
Well, explain to her, and that's the best way out.. For she already seen with her eyes, of what happened, thus it's gonna be hard for her to 'forgive'.. Because to many others, seeing is believing.. haha =D
OR u should get the guy to explain to her as well, and that will solve all problems.. hehe ^_^ If not, worse comes to worse, u have to lie to your fren instead.. BY saying, u and the guy are on errand, and at the same time, u are testing out his feelings for your fren.. hehe
Maybe in a way, your fren will be too excited to be feeling angry ^_^
@srikandi19 (3391)
• Kuta, Indonesia
24 Oct 09
I feel hard to explained it to my friend.
by the way, thanks for your advice, I will trying again.
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@suprabha_77777 (232)
• India
30 Nov 09
go and talk to her try to convince her what u were suppose to do. tell sorry make her to tell sorry... shake hands then friendly hug. be friends
@Apple3Cranberry (678)
• United States
28 Nov 09
Well I think she should tell him. That way things will get straight. Then she'll have a boyfriend. Also, if he doesn't like her, then she will know.