Which is easier? fall in love or stay in love?
By mielshare
@mielshare (265)
Philippines
October 22, 2009 3:12am CST
Which one do you think is easier?
If I'll be asked with this question, i think falling in love is easier because it's really hard to stay in love, cause some situations might arrise and will make fall out of love.. so falling in love is easier for me..
How bout you friends??
HAppy mylotting!!!
22 responses
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
I don't really get what you mean here. because you cannot explain what you mean stay in love...Will you please differentiate the stay in love and fall in love?
What is stay in love differ to fall in love?
@mielshare (265)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
Stay in love means you are in a relationship and continuously loving the same person at the same level all through out..
@jewel76 (2305)
• Canada
26 Oct 09
I believe they are both as hard, in their own way...falling in love is not that easy; you have to get to know the person, before you can start to have feelings for them, what you may feel before is attraction, interest, infatuation. You also have to trust the person, to open up your heart to them. Now, staying in love has its other complications, such as fights in the couple, children (sometimes, people fall out of love after they have children, because their partner changes) , in some hard situations there's cheating or lying involved, which may lead to falling out of love. Basically, love is a hard thing, but it's all worth it!
@mielshare (265)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
yah ans I think there is nothing which is easy in this world it only depends on the person how to deal with it..
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
Precisely, it is easier to fall in love than to stay in love. It is so because it is easier to fall into something than to maintain it. Naturally, to say that you are in love is deceiving because it is an initial feeling. When you are already in the love relationship, you should maintain the feeling which is very hard. That is why there is breaking up or separation because it is not easy to stay in love.
@mielshare (265)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
Why do you think it is hard to stay in love with the same person?
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
24 Oct 09
i think staying single is better than the both...because once if u fall in love, u have to be true to that love and you have to stay the same through out your life...
so i prefer that staying single is much better....marrying a girl of parent's choice is very much better..
@mielshare (265)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
LOL!!!
But it doesn't mean that whne you are single you don't have the tendency to fall in love or worse to stay in love..
@aulius111 (330)
• Australia
24 Oct 09
I completely agree with you, falling in love is easy because all you have to do is like what you see but staying in love can be difficult but if it truly is love staying in love should be easy.
@mielshare (265)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
I think so and for you to do that you have to chose the right person to fall in love with so that staying in love will be as easy as falling in love.
@sarwanever (435)
• India
24 Oct 09
falling in love is easy after that maintaining the sweet pain is a piece of damn cant use bad words here .starting it will be the best pleasure latter u will realise u lost urself in it.
@mielshare (265)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
I understand what you are trying to say..And I think your right.
@Rainegurl (2156)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
I think it is easier to fall in love. It is possible that a person can get attracted to another in an instant. Like if he likes pretty girls or someone kind-hearted. What is difficult is to stay in love. After a while of being together, the true personality of each one in a relationship comes out. One may become more attracted but one may also become turned off. But one cannot surrender at the first showing of a negative trait, right? A relationship is something that takes a lot of effort on both sides in order for it to work out. Patience and understanding are important. These can be difficult to give sometimes but it is very necessary.
Cheers!
@mielshare (265)
• Philippines
23 Oct 09
Yes but sometimes people misunderstood the concept of love and mere attaction.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
22 Oct 09
Yes!It is easy to fall in love for anybody.But staying in love with the bond is different.One has to adjust and accept the other completely which is quite difficult.But that is real love where you take all the plus and minus of your partner.Cheers!
@ajayrocks111 (390)
• India
22 Oct 09
I think both are easy and falling in love is too much easy and it takes seconds to fall in love. if you have selected a right person and if he / she is very cooperative and understands you well then even leading life with them is also too easy.
@mielshare (265)
• Philippines
23 Oct 09
yes..and I think the happiest way of staying in love is falling in love with the same person over and over again.
@buping (952)
• China
22 Oct 09
hi friend, i think falling love is easier to me. we can love someone in the first sight for some reasons. but when we get to know about him/her, we may found that he/she is not the right one to live with. amybe he has bad hobby you do not like, but we do not know about it in the first sight, so i think falling love is easier than staying in love.
@mielshare (265)
• Philippines
23 Oct 09
I agree with you buping cause there are many contributing factors in staying with someone..
Thanks for the comment!
@getbrowser (1708)
• China
22 Oct 09
Generally speaking, falling in love is easier than staying in love.
From where I stand, people can fall in love at first sight without any hesitation. But once they have loved some others, then they need to stay in love, which is really difficult for people who are inaccessible to insistence. In order to keep the relationship with your partners, people should learn to care about each other and pay much attention to the stabilization of relationship.
Happy myLotting!
@battleground (38)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
falling in love is the easy part..staying inlove is the hard and tricky part.team work is the key! give and take ..unconditional love and communication.Yes you can be inlove with some pretty hot blonde at 7-11 but you dont even know here enough to stay inlove with her.
@dsnachiever (250)
• India
22 Oct 09
Yes friend for me also falling in love is easier but staying in love is very difficult. Sometime I think Why staying in love is difficult for me. And I realised because falling in love is easier for me. When I fall in love with someone I can't stay in love with her as the very next day I will fall in love with another girl and so on. So, keep on falling in love!
@mrnischalgurung (424)
• India
22 Oct 09
Falling in love is very easy. It takes seconds to fall in love. .. But staying in the realtionship and keeping it alive is not so easy. You gotta have true love,trust and co ordination with ur partner.
@EARLZHAN (934)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
Yeah.. your right.. A person can fall in love at the first time he/she saw someone that attracts him/her so much.. Falling in love starts with admiration and it usually end up because of disappointment.. It's really hard to maintain relationship the best thing to maintain a relationship is to stay in love with each other but sometimes others can't do it..
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
I agree with you. Stay in love in a relationship
is a challenge. Falling in love is easier...it can happen overnight,
one week, one month. Staying in love is much more fulfilling.
@jenzai (388)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
Falling in love is much easier, maintaining that feeling is difficult. Later on you will have to discover things, emotions that will determine if you will have to continue the relationship. Staying in a relationship requires not only the feeling of being in love but a true commitment, maturity of emotions,character, i think their are a lot of factors to it.
@prakashdhole24 (6)
• India
22 Oct 09
wow I always wanna stay in love for ever till i fall in love with some on else. you made me think about it, Seriously.
@rhan04 (307)
• Philippines
23 Oct 09
Yeah. I have to agree that falling in love is easier. The hard part, other than staying in love, is who you fall in love with. Falling in love is so easy that sometimes you wouldn't even notice what you're feeling until it's too late. You're lucky if the one that you love, loves you back. But what if it's unrequited right?
In some cases, staying in love is not as difficult as most people think. It really depends on the individual. If you are happy in the relationship, you would do your best to overcome all the difficult situations that will come in your relationship. But of course, who would blame you if you get tired of it right? It happens.
@jaygurl143 (23)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
ahmmmmmm..... phew.. it's easier to fall in love!!! you can fall in love anytime, anywhere ....and staying is love is not i mean NEVER easy.. knowing that someday you'll get the kinda of person he/she is.. and what if you end up not sailing on the same river???? oh well.. we all know where that leads to...sigh..SEE??? not easy...one should be committed and practice acceptance.....and then again..falling in love is much easier!! ^_^