Can you sense the user's personality after reading many of his discussions

I've been here awhile and have a fair amount of friends. I accept requests, and then delete them as I learn more about them! Some of my friends I've had for a year or more and have become pretty close with. I feel they pretty much know me by now as I know them! tdemex

maybe yes or nah but for me i can sense person personality of what kinda person he is by means in how he express his words and feelings in his messages...

Yes I believe so manong05. The things that comes out of our mind, are the real us. We can pretend to be what we are not but when it comes to saying our thoughts and opinions that we cannot change and hide. Our true us will come out through the way we talk. Our perspectives and beliefs are the mirror of our personality.

i can't. and i don't have time also, because i only read shortly and do reply discussion instantly.

hello, manong05, I agree your point, although mylot is a visual community we can know at least a little bit about the users' disposition, his hobby, his character, his talent, ect. Humor, trustworthiness, short temper, patience, all these good-natured temperament help us to distinguish all kinds of vivid people.

Well, I do believe that what you write and how you write it can also be an indication of what personality you have. I've experienced those kind of feelings when I read other people's blogs or even when I talk to them. They just have this aura and you can't help but 'assume' that this person is like this, or like that. But it's true that it can't always be accurate. It is still best not to judge them without knowing them first because there are people who 'choose' people who they can show their real selves to.

hi manong I think that we probably reveal certain personality traits in our discussions and responses and comments, so one might be able to say this user is out going and this one is more introspective. but we still do not see the whole person at least not unless they have been here for ages. I always feel it is not fair really to judge what a person's personality is by what we post, I guess because i myself have been misjudged so many times myself.

Most definitely. You can grasp somebody's personality by everything they do. It's also possible that a person can be "different" in distinct ways. You may sound like a serious person at one point or maybe someone entirely different in another situation or in another place. Mostly here in myLot, you see the serious side of people and in another way their good sense of humor.

Hi mamong, when there is a lot of interaction with certain users I find it quite easy to know the ones I'd enjoy sitting down with over a coffee, the ones who I can feel are honest, say it as it is, consistent. Some of them I can spot a warmth in their personalities and others have a good sense of the satirical. These are traits which stand out and make me know we'd get on.

I think while we can hide behind words, if we follow the words of certain people, we can detect underlying personality traits. I realised this yesterday, when I had a response to one of my discussions from a supposedly new user. The way the response was worded and the general tone suggested that I'd interacted with this person before, and I was proved right. As to you being serious? Well, you do put up some serious and thoughtful discussions, but beneath it all I sense the mischief that is part of the real you. Please don't tell me I'm wrong!

Usually I will build the images of the persons in my mind of how he or she is like in real life when reading their discussions or posts here in myLot. This also happens when I blog. There is a blogger that I know of since 2007. From the things she writes in her blog, one can imagine that she is a jovial person, talkative and loves to laugh. However, she did say that in real life, she is not really talkative until she gets to know the other person better. This was confirmed by another blogger friend who met her before, but as soon as one gets to know her better, she becomes the entire person who writes the blog. So, I agree that we can really sense part of the personality of the users through their writings and words.

Hi manong05, Yea I do, the way he shares ideas,and the way he responds the topic for discussions. I can feel what kind of person he is , if his good or not.More power!good day!

yes and no. even if the person is hiding, when he writes, you will see his personality. but there are those who really pretend someone they are not. its just an indication of who they realy want to be.

After about 5 posts you get a general idea, after about 20 I think definately know a good bit, especially if you have seen them post on many different topics.

I think we can!But not with the generalized opinions on some topics.A person could come out with his original voice in sensational issues and we can figure out him/her easily.Because nobody can mask him at all time and it is quite easy to judge,I hope.Cheers!

i think it`s hard to know more detail someone if only read this writing.sometimes we write because our feelings but not our idealisme. that`s why i say it`s hard to know more someone