Maybe he thinks food is cheap

@suspenseful (40193)
Canada
October 22, 2009 11:31am CST
We were having a discussion that other day on what groceries should cost a week. There are two of us. I am on the borderline of diabetes -not there yet and hope i never get that way so I need lots of fruits, vegetables, and salad stuff and lean meats. He needs a lot of energy food as he has Lou Gehrig's disease. And we live in Winnipeg, MB. He thinks that we can get away with $60 to $70 a week, and I think no way and that is not counting the toilet paper, soaps, and non food items. We do not have a garden so you have to take that into consideration. I say that without the non-food items, $80 to $90 a week should do it. So who is right?
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@meme0907 (3481)
• United States
23 Oct 09
hey s, I definetly side w/ you @ about $90. There are only two in my household now & still the grocery bill can go over $100 if I need cleaning supplies etc.. heck lysol is $5 a can alone & we're stocking up on things like that these days. |:)
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@meme0907 (3481)
• United States
21 Jan 10
wow you had to get alot of the expensive items on that grocery run I just bought similar items ie: salmon fillet,canned tuna,some bananas, some sald fixins,olive oil, & side items-no snack foods the only expensive item was ribeyes & my bill was $70++ I wanted to croak LOL |:)
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
25 Jan 10
Right now the salmon is more expensive then the tuna fish. My husband loves salmon. I do not buy rib eye steaks as I have to cut them up for my husband. My grocery bill runs around $80 and if I forget to stock up on stuff it will run a bit more. And I am paying for the grocery bill. And we do not have enough to stock up on stuff. Next week I will have to get the automatic dish washing detergant so I have to decide on the no name that is not effective, the really effective one that does not cost that much but ruins the finish, or the good one that is expensive and does a good job. Luckily I have coupons for the latter. On top of that I am running out of some of my over the counter herbal medicines but do not want to go without as so far they are helping. Luckily our grocery offers discounts and for 20,000 points I will get $20 off the next bill.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
2 Jan 10
Last bill was $135.00 and that was because as well as the food (and we did not buy any meat that time) we had some Tylenol pills to get, some vitamins, paper tissues, etc. and I had to leave the pads I usually get until next week. We also bought a large package of cheese (they said it was old, it was on sale, but I think the reason it was on sale was it was mislabeled - really not that old) plus some fancy cheese, tomato paste, nuts, etc. for Christmas. Oh yes and we ran out of olive oil, so had to get that. And for some fluke the extra virgin olive oil was cheaper then the regular kind I use for saueting and shallow frying, so this week I will have to see if there is the regular kind on sale. I find that olive oil is best for you. On top of that, salad veggies do not keep that well, so may have to get more of them. As well as that, we also need some tins of tuna and salmon, plus the mayonnaise. It does add up. The weeks before I kept everything down to around $80, but what happens is that when I do that I decide that we really do not need tuna that week so do not get a can for that, and there is enough mayonnaise left in the jar. Then what happens is that week's bill is around $100 or more. I think I will just have to keep buying the meat or fish and store it so we do not run out. That means I have to pay $90 or a little more in winter for our groceries and that is minus the non food items.
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• Canada
22 Oct 09
I think that YOU are right. You two both need some form of special diet food, and special diet food costs money. unfortunately good food in general costs money, and the only stuff that doesn't cost anything is the stuff people get at the foodbank. LOL I think that you need to spend what you need to to ensure that you and your husband eat properly.
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• Canada
1 Nov 09
Yeah, I know what you mean. My husband and I have a nice balance between what we spend on food and what we spend on ourslves, but when I spend on me, I don't go for nailpolish and stuff like that, because making myslf look feminine according to the beauty industry costs even more than food! LOL
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
1 Jan 10
I did get my nails done for my younger son's wedding in August, but that was a treat. I would not do it myself as I feel it is a waste of time since I will wear off the nail polish with washing dishes, etc. I feel if I do go and buy cosmetics, or whatever something horrible financial will happen. We are having a hard time paying bills what with my husband's als and the van upgrades as it is.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
23 Oct 09
I saw what goes to the Food bank. Not that healthy. No wonder poor people are fat as well as middle class people whose husband want things to be cheap. And next week I have to get some meat. That will make the food bill go up. He is not going to like that. And he wonders why I do not get any nail polish or some nice shoes. Who can afford that?
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• United States
22 Oct 09
I pay $80.00 to $100.00 a week and there is just me and my dogs. It does include non food items.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
23 Oct 09
I know pet food is not cheap. We used to own a dog and we mixed the dry dog food with left over hamburger and peas. But then there were four of us including the dog. The food bill went down to $100 when the boys left, and even though the food costs most and we do not want to throw things out, we pay between $80 to $90.
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
23 Oct 09
Well I guess that depends too on how many people are in the family. My family would not be able to get by on $60 to $70 a week, and probably not even 80 or 90. I spend about $150 per week for my family of 5. Of course if I really had to spend under $100 I could do it, but it would take a lot of planning, menu creating, scanning the sale papers and clipping coupons, I do some of that, but I don't have the time to make a profession out of it. There are weeks I do better than others but typically it is about $150 a week, and I get to keep what ever money I don't spend on food, and I still spend that much food is not cheap. I went to Aldis which is the cheapest store around the other day and the only meat I bought was 3 pounds of hamburger, and I bought a coat for my son for $12.99 and my bill was 94 dollars. That was basically for cereal, milk, cottage cheese, taco shells, the grond beef, the coat, orange juice, some bagel bites and a few other things. Take your hubby with you to the store and tell him to buy what he wants not looking at the prices just what he thinks you guys would need for one week of meals, then take him to the check out and watch his shock.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
25 Oct 09
For two people to eat healthy, you need at least $80. We were able to get by with $120 a week when there were four of us, but it costs more per person to feed two because if we get the large packages, in order for us to save, we have to have chicken or beef or whatever all the time. So there is no variety. When the produce is cheap it is all right, but once the lettuce goes high, he decides no more lettuce and guess what happens when all the dark greens are costly, he thinks get someting not as healthy.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
22 Oct 09
I think it's more realistic to say $80-$90 a week if you ask me, because food is really expensive these days! But also because toiletries and other household necessities (paper towels, toilet paper, cleaning supplies, feminine stuff, etc) adds up extremely quickly as well. I live in a 2 person household, so we probably only spend about $45 a week on groceries, but I'm sure it's a different scenario for your household.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
23 Oct 09
It depends where you live, whether you have a garden, and whether you have stuff left over from the last few weeks. We were able to stock up on meat a while back, but now we are running out. Also ground chicken, chicken br*sts, ground turkey, and turket br*st is more expensive up there then buying beef and pork. So it costs more for me to eat healthy. And the produce here lays in teh warehouse and by the time it gets to the Superstore it will only keep for one week at the most. And unless the fruit is cheap, I better not buy any. It is a good thing i stocked up on blueberries. I can get the paper towels using points at our Canada Tire store, but we have a large credit card bill there because of renovating the house so I have not charge anything.
@jb78000 (15139)
23 Oct 09
i think that the most important thing is keeping the pair of you healthy. i have just translated the higher figure into pounds and it isn't much really - you could do it on benefits. however you can get more veggies cheaper if you buy tinned ones (not exactly the same but fine for cooking) and frozen ones.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
1 Jan 10
We use a lot of frozen vegetables. In fact, I find them more healthy then buying some fresh and letting it last a few days in the freezer. If I had a garden I could go and pick what I need for the day but I don't. The trouble is that with canned, they are not that good. Neither of us a vegetarians, but I do make a lot of casseroles.
@jb78000 (15139)
23 Oct 09
meant some of the veggies you eat - obviously not all.
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@avonrep1 (1862)
• United States
2 Apr 11
It depends on how you shop it you can do it or not. I feed a family of 5 on around $200 a month. I do this by buying in bulk and then take a vacuum food sealer and package it into smaller meals. We spend another $50 or so a month on non-food items. It can happen but you need to coupon clip and look out for bargains. I don't know what kind of offers are made in your country but if you are trying to save money and eat cheap the best way to do it is stocking up on sale items, things rotate on sell and for the first few weeks you may eat a lot of certain items but if you buy lots of things that are on sale and you have coupons on top of it you can get things for pennies on the dollar and sometimes free. I like shopping on double coupon days myself and try to stretch our food dollars as much as I can. The best I ever did was get over $200 worth of groceries for just over $35. Matter of fact I wrote about it that day when it happened. When I buy food I only buy things that are on sale. Very rarely do I buy something that isn't on sale, if a craving has hit and I got to satisfy it.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
3 Apr 11
When there were the four of us, it was easier for me to eat cheap, but I was not exactly eating healthy. For instance, we wold buy iceberg lettuce, macaroni and cheese, kool aid instead of real orange juice, etc. and of course margarine instead of butter. Shortening instead of lard, etc. Then the trans fat scare hit and I found that lot of the food we were eating was why I was gaining weight. I do coupon clip but a lot of the time, it is not for the things I normally buy. I find it is more expensive shopping for singles, widows, and widowers then for families. I do buy dried beans and make my own chili and I also make my own tomato sauce. I could buy it, but it contain sugar. Unfortunately most of the time, our store does not allow double coupon days. I wish we also had a longer growing season so we would not have to import things from Chile.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
22 Oct 09
you are my SIL thought we could get by with $140 for 2 weeks I looked in fridge to day to cook somethign for tonight hmmmmmmmmmmmmm they had only provided for 6 meals dumplins , spam and Chili what are we going to do for next week! stave I guess for we havent any money to buy any more no one gets paid till the 30th
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
23 Oct 09
well we dont have $30 to buy any thing to eat next week so we starve!
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
24 Oct 09
only thing ya can do is have her talk to him in nurse tones1
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
24 Oct 09
We have this big credit bill to pay and I have been using part of my pension to pay for the groceries every 2nd week. Now it is my turn and usually that is when I buy the stuff I consider we need. My friends are very nice, the ones that are getting the van. Both of them have health problems and the husband has to lose weight and he is partly diabetic also, and he does not mind his wife seeing that he eats healthy. I was wondering. She is a nurse. Maybe she could convince my husband that Romaine and leaf lettuce is healthier then head lettuce, that whole grain is better then white, etc.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
22 Oct 09
Well, it costs me anywhere from 50 to 60.00 per week to feed my daughter and myself and that does include toilet paper and soaps etc. The difference between my situation and yours is that you are trying to feed 2 different people with 2 different diets. It is not farfetched to imagine that it would cost 80.00 or more per week in your situation.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
22 Oct 09
We also live in Winnipeg, MB and our growing season is a bit short. I also do not grow anything except for apples and I already have apples in the freezer for sauce and pies and so I gave most away. I would say $80 a week and I do not want to gain more weight or be unhealthy. The trouble also was last week he wanted me to get Halloween candies for the children that would show up at our door - $15. a pack, so that blew the budget which was $100 because I needed panty hose and soft soap. So I figured that taking those items off, it would have been a little over $80 which to me is normal.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
24 Oct 09
He is aware of what is on the things that he wants, but if I pay $15.00 for a bag of candies, that $15.00 has to come out of somewhere. For instance, this week the bag of candies will be around $9.00 and he wants to get a club pack of drumsticks and that is about 5 lb at about #3.00 a lb. that will be $15.00. I could get a small package of thighs for $4.00, and that will be $11 to buy more canned goods, and more vegetables, fruits, and salads. And if the van arrives today, that means he will be shopping with me on Monday and I do not like that, because I will forgo the drumsticks, and buy either chicken br*st or thighs instead. I wonder if buying whole chicken would be easier, but then I do not use the wings and the backbone that much.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
23 Oct 09
Sounds as if the cost of living where you are is higher than here. Here a bag of good halloween candy is about 5.00 to possibly 6 or 7.00. Things have gone up so much lately. Maybe your husband isn't aware of just how much the costs of just about everything have risen. You should show him your reciepts. times are tough.
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@dlr297 (5409)
• United States
22 Oct 09
Too buy fresh foods every week is a great expense. I usually only buy organic foods, and other products, and it is just me and my husband and i usually spend about 150.00 a week but that is for everything...food and non-food products.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
22 Oct 09
I cannot afford organic and now that my husband wants to go shopping with me, it will be harder to buy fresh food. Last week we paid $135 a week but that is because I had to stock up on vegetables, and other stuff. And I did not buy any meat, but now we have run out so next week will not be that good.
@dlr297 (5409)
• United States
22 Oct 09
We have a grocery store here that has nothing but organic stuff. so it is not as expensive as the things they have in the regular grocery store, and they have a big selection of everything and it is always fresh. I wish you luck on your shopping this week
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
23 Oct 09
Organic food costs more up here in Winnipeg. And sometimes it does not look as good - oh at Safeway it does, but at Superstore, they do not check it as often. I would love to buy more organic, but cannot afford to. And by looking at what you spend, I can see why. We will spend about $120 a week on average on non food and food items a like and we buy a lot of no name products and certainly no organic products although one time they did have some cantelope on sale at Safeway where the organic was cheaper then the regular sprayed stuff.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
6 Nov 09
My husband is the same way. He thinks that it won't cost that much to have enough groceries for the entire week. That it would only cost about $50-70 a week. But I am with you on this one, that it would cost somewhere between 80-90 dollars a week. Without even the non food items.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
3 Jan 10
That is for sure. The only time I can spend $70 a week is because the weeks before i stocked up on ketchup, soya sauce, meat, etc. If I had to get them the grocery bill will run to be around $90 a week. Yes and without the non-food items.
• United States
5 Nov 09
It depends where you shop. I have a friend of mine who shops at Albertson's (a major chain store) and she says she is lucky if she spends 100.00 a week. Another friend of mine and I shop at Wal-mart and we are able to get our bills down to 50.00 a week. It depends on what you buy. For my non-food items I go to Sams Club and buy in bulk. Most of the time my friends and I go half and it has saved us money. For fruits and vegetables if you can go to Wal-mart they are cheaper and stay fresh longer. Also, if possible buy frozen vegetables they are cheaper as well. Here are a few web sites I go to to look for recipes. dlife.org (this is American Diabetes Association site) cook.com has a lot of recipes that do not use many ingredients. look up frugal cooking and there are recipes there as well.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
3 Jan 10
We do most of our shopping at Superstore which could be compared to the Walmart in the States. The Walmart here does not sell fresh produce such as vegetables. We can spend anywhere from $80 to $90 a week. Now this does not count the non-food items. We can get fresh produce that lasts long at Safeway but it is more expensive. I try to avoid artificially sweetened products, but will buy stuff that is a little more expensive because it does not have the additives in them. I do go on dlife and cook.com. We also have our diabetic sites, but some of them are the old kind when they thought that white rice was healthy.
• India
20 Jul 10
Hi friend here in my city in india cost of food items, rice, wheat, sugar, edible oils rise by 20% every week, fruits are so costly, they are almost poison due to the heavy coat of insecticides, vegetable cost is too high.. but we have to eat, me and my wife both are diabetic, we prefer milk, milk produts in addition to vegetables and things made from wheat.. Thanks for sharing. Welcome always. Cheers. Professor
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
2 Apr 11
Now that I am a widow, I find that it is more expensive because most of the foods are packaged here for families and you really cannot get a whole head of lettuce or a bunch of celery for just one person. And having it one at a time costs more. Our food is also going up. I was going to stock up on frozen food when it was on sale, that is packages of frozen peas, beans, etc. but even that is too much.
@marie2052 (3691)
• United States
17 Apr 11
My girlfriend lives in the same area you do. I am sure you are right about the money. I don't have anything that would effect my diet except to eat healthy anyway. My husband who is a full blown diabetic and on insulin daily has to have 3 to 4 snacks a day plus his meals. It is an very expensive illness to do all this. I have to watch the carbs in everything I purchase for him, I try not to have to many sweets in the house...But his snacks for what he has to eat, he won't eat fruits or vegetables. Some nurse dietician told him he could eat turkey lunch meat so he will roll up like 3 to 4 slices of lunch meat for a snack. so I am buying 2 to 4 lbs of lunchmeat for him to snack on a week plus, 100 calorie under 20carbs snacks. His snacks alone can run my grocery bill 20 to 40.00. He could make it cheaper but refuses to change his diet. So our grocery bill is almost always 150.00 a week. he takes his breakfast and lunch, and his two snacks to work plus diet cokes, plus I will always make him a 0 calorie flavored water drink like peach tea. if I was by myself, I could probably get by with 30 to 40 a week. I eat totally different than him. except for our dinner meal. I deffinately know what you are going through! Hopefully since you live there maybe the farmers market opening at the Forks will aid you. My girlfriend took me there when I visited her in Canada. Good luck prices seem to be going up everywhere on everything as the gas increases.
@1346795 (805)
• Greece
23 Oct 09
I hope that he is right because this is going to be better for your wallet.But as i read your description it sounds that your calculations are closer to reality.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
24 Oct 09
I found that when I did not buy any non-food items, I paid around $80 to $90 for the food a week. And that is when I had the choice of buying. Now when he decides what to buy, it winds up more because I have to add the salad stuff, and produce to it, and if I just bought what he wanted, well my teeth would fall out, I would get scurvy, my gums would bleed, etc.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
24 Oct 09
Well, what my husband and I tend to do since it is just the 2 of us, is buy our larger products in Bulk somewhere if we can, like Meat, Toilet Paper, etc. and when we really need these, so then weekly what we only need to buy is items such as salad fixings for my lunches, and fruit and stuff like that. We do usually try and plan ahead and that way we find our money stretching a little further as well. Personally what we spend depends on what we need, but we are trying to try and stick more to an organized budget for sure.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
30 Oct 09
We usually buy larger sizes in toilet paper, but it all depends on what is on sale and whether we need it. I cannot see buying a whole lot of tomato soup or a whole big block of cheddar cheese when it will go moldy. Dried beans are all right. And if we buy tomato soup or cheese in the large sizes, that means that what I need that is in the smaller sizes if I buy that we are over budget. For instance last week, my husband wanted a bulk size of drumsticks, and I wanted a bulk size of chicken br*sts, but it was either one or the other and that would have put the budget to be $120 and that was not counting the non-food items we had run out of. So I got two small packages of each.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
23 Oct 09
i think you are right as you obiviously do the shopping and now the prices of essential commodities are rising,maybe if he is adament then you should cut one of his foods....
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
30 Oct 09
I did not get the large package of drumsticks that he wanted. It would have blown the budget anyway. It may be that I have to buy the whole food budget with my money and I do not want to do that as I also have to buy other things as well.
• United States
23 Oct 09
I'm not sure who would be right cause I don't know the prices where you live. I do like to shop at places like Aldi and Walmart and Target to get lower prices than the actual grocery stores. I do shop at the grocery stores some though and try to buy stuff when it's on sale. I like to use coupons too to save money. I don't go shopping each week so I really don't even know how much we spend each week if I break it down. I just go shopping for food and things when we need it...not each week though.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
30 Oct 09
We have the Superstore which is the cheapest grocery -big box store in our area. We have Walmart but that does not have a produce section here. We also have Cosmo but there you have to have a membership and the low prices do not cancel out the membership fee unless you are buying a lot in bulk and or for a large family, so when the kids are grown, they all switch to Superstore. I do find that it is about $80 to $90 a week for groceries alone, unless it is during the summer and to the end of October where we can get it down to around $75 to $80, but then we cannot count on that since we have to take in the cost of shipping the goods from just outside of the city.
@jezzmay (1845)
• United States
23 Oct 09
If you can get what you need at either price that one would be right. That also must include what you need for your health. You do need a special diet to keep from getting diabetes. He needs to understand this. Have a great day.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
26 Oct 09
That is what I feel. Good food is more expensive then stuff that is not good for you. If I go and buy what he wants, then in order to keep to the budget, either mine or his, I will have to go without the salad stuff, walnuts, and almonds. The only way is until he goes shopping with me, which he will once the van is checked out for safety, is to stock up on the healthy stuff he does not want me to get.
• United States
31 Oct 09
Depending what you buy and if they items are on sale or you use coupons could have a big bearing on your grocery bill. Watch out on your intake of to many fruits per day, since fruits are a natural sugar. I have the same problem and have to watch my fruit intake as I love fruits also.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
2 Jan 10
I love blueberries and usually I buy about 4 lbs in September when they are in season, then I will freeze them by laying them on a big cookie sheet and put them in a freezer bag so they will last for a while. I will have them with cereal or with yogurt. My husband loves bananas but I do not like them as much and besides they have a higher glycemic index, and I love apples, oranges, pineapples. What I do is to shop at the Superstore and before that we would just use the debit card, until I discovered that if I get a President's Choice Mastercard, I can put it on the Mastercard, and get points. 20,000 points means that I will get $20 off my grocery bill the next time if I do not buy something with it.