does being single bother you?
By mel0007
@mel0007 (16)
Philippines
October 23, 2009 12:33am CST
are u the only one in your group of friends who is single?
tell me about it =)
5 responses
@classicelfryoko (109)
• United States
24 Oct 09
I hate being single. All of my friends are either married, engaged, or have boyfriends. o_o I always feel like the outsider or the weird one when I go out with them cause i'm always by myself and they're all hugging up on their man...it sucks alot sometimes..
@Archie0 (5652)
•
25 Oct 09
I've been single now going on 3 years, and yes it bothers me. I sometimes feel inconfident about myself in many ways, and I feel really lonely.
I'm not one to trust people much anymore because I've had a vivid past. I used to have lots of "so-called" friends. But, now I don't want to be part of the situations I was part of in my past.
But yes- when I get home to my small empty apartment, I get lonely. But, only time will tell because I know I'll find that special person one day. HOPE is all we got, right?
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
nope i have few friends and like me they are single and loving every minutes of it. I think being single is not a sin it is up for the woman to remain single or not as long as she feel happy and not ready to commit. it is fine to be single than to feel pressure to marry someone she barely know. love could not be forced it just comes freely.
@OrangJuice (687)
• China
23 Oct 09
Not really, but almost yes. Almost of my best friends are married and have their own babies. Except two, including me. But I heard she also has had a boyfriend, it's possible they will get married.
I'm really bothering about it. But I'm becoming calm down, as I believe God will arrange for me. I'm just enjoying my single life enough and learning, while waiting for that man.
@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
not really.I have several friends who are in a relationship.in my circle of friends at my workplace,there are 2 of us who are single,though the other one has this guy (who is also my friend)whom she is having an understanding with.doesn't really bother me at all.I am more bothered financially,because I don't have a business yet and my savings account is currently drained.
@dibbee_1988 (29)
• Philippines
6 Nov 09
I keep telling myself that it's okay to be single.It pays to wait.But deep inside I can really feel the longing of having someone,a companion who will love me in a romantic way.But I do believe that we don't really have to go searching for love,love will find us.It will just come unexpectedly.Love moves in mysterious ways,as what they say.