What do girls mean when they say " i dont trust u "

Sometimes it doesn't even matter if you would see yourself hooking up or dating someone else, sometimes it has to do with the way that you treat other girls when you are with them. girls can be somewhat jealous but so can guys. when she says she doesn't trust you there must be a reason why. ask her why she doesnt trust you. you might get the exact answer you are looking for.

It means she thinks you are a cheater, an is looking for you to show your true colors soon. When someone says they don't trust you thats never good, means unless you get that trust soon, that relationship is gonna be over. Even if someone is not cheating if the other keeps thinking they are it affects their thinking, not only does it drive the person who really is not cheating mad it makes it more likely for them to cheat, also if one thinks the other is cheating they are likely to cheat too. So you better get her trust soon, or it could be over. Just realize that some people are paranoid like that, an theirs nothing you can do, they will violate all your privacy to prove your a cheat, maybe read your email, your texts messages, check your phone, ask for password to all your stuff. Nothing you can do about those types, they have to help themselves first.

Ugh, well, first of all, maybe you need to be THIS CLEAR with your girlfriend, meaning you tell her that you want nobody else but her, you are with nobody else but her, and your behavior should speak for itself. I will admit that a lot of people (not just women) are jealous or suspicious because people have a bad track record, they are caught looking, flirting, etc. All it takes is ONE bad experience with that, even in a PAST relationship and it can bubble right back up to the surface. I am pretty selfish about my marriage/love relationship, and also my daughter. I don't believe in polygamy, and I would not want to deal with a second husband . I also don't like the whole 'village raising a child' thing. If you're into that, BE into that, but I'm not. Anyway, 'I don't trust you' means just that, either they haven't known you long enough to KNOW you are genuine, or something about your current or past behavior has given them reason for pause and concern, so they honestly DON'T trust you. All you can do about it is continue to be truthful and hope your good actions speak for themselves - along with reassuring her that she is the only one for you. I believe women need actions AND words equally, and we have to feel they are GENUINE. If we feel that way, then there's no wrong you can do.

well when she told you that she doesn't trust you it only means she's getting jealous and that she has a gut feeling that you might like the girl you mentioned. if i ever hear another girls name from my husband my veins just go like "who the hell is that and why did he had to mention her name" cause common face it when we mention someones name that means they have a certain impact to us that we remembered what they said or what they did right? since mentioning another girl's name leads to fights then better stay away from mentioning anybody you might say that she's just like a sis to you or just a friend well if it hurts your girl then better step away from mentioning all the more goin with that girl and if you can't do that then better prove your loyalty to your girlfriend. her feeling of insecurity to others just meant how much she loves you and how much she wants you to stay focused and loyal to her. so keep that in mind friendship might lead to romance that's why girls always anticipates whenever their boyfriend or husband say another girl's name.

Trust is built by being consistent and honest in all things, over a long time. You must never lie. As in never, at any time, lie to her about anything ever. You must be consistent, as in never changing. If you do this, without arguing, without fighting, you will build trust with her. Well it be easy? Not at all. Well you always want to be truthful and consistent? Of course not. But if you do this, you will build trust into your relationship.

Hi velocity, I think what life8118 says is correct. Even i had been through this kind of situation many times with my girlfriend. But I suggest you to continue the same relationship what you are having with other girls okay. If you really leave that then she may blame you in your future that you had wrong relationship in your past and she changed you. So just carry on and try to make up her mind and give her lots of love and care so that she believes you very much.

If you have truly never done anything to warrant her worry, then she is jealous which an be very dangerous. Have you asked her? Tried talking to her about this? I would be careful, this is not healthy.

If you haven't done anything to lose her trust, I'd say it was her problem, not yours. On the other hand, if you have lied to her or something, it takes time to rebuild trust and you have to work with the person if you want to stay with them. But if she's treating you like that for no reason, why stay?

there is no way to put this. am sorry in advance but if i were to say i don't trust you to a guy that means i don't really trust him and am (probably) in a relationship with him because he is the last resort.

hello velocity, maybe she didn't the idea of you talking or making friends with other women. they can be jealous in some things like that. i guess there's more to prove than it just getting to know you more than you should be. i agree with others, be yourself and don't pretend.

She means what she says that she does not trust you but you said you have never been unfaithful there is nothing you have done for her to be suspicious of you which means she has been cheated on by some guy before and is finding it difficult to let go. In this case what you should do is to keep assuring her that you love her and would not hurt her and when you say that do it, i meat try not to cheat on her cause youll kill her

If men are naturally polygamous, women are naturally insecure haha. I don't like it if my boyfriend talks about another woman infront of me. Hahaha, and that phrase means, "I know there is something fishy" hahaha

Hi velocity, if your girlfriend most of the times tells you that she doesn't trust you it means that your relationship with her is not yet that deep..You know each other but still not that much..Maybe she is not just comfortable talking about other girls but i think with explanation that they are just friends and thats why your being open to her so that she shouldn't feel so jealous about them.. About her being jealous as well of your sister is a different topic. I think she shouldn't be because she is your same blood. Instead she should be getting along with her and know her too.. Have you tried introducing her to your family?..:) I think your girlfriend needs to meet your family as well to know them well and to be able to build a good relationship with you and your family as well. In order for her to be able to gain your trust...Its a special way of showing her you really loved her so much and that she is the only girl you would want your family to meet...:)

I have an answer for you, as a guy maybe not in the same situation but know friends whom are, Your girlfriend most likely from the moment she saw you thought you where good looking and every girls dream boyfriend. She probly feels insecure about this and needs reasuring. But dont go over the top by buying gifts as she'll think your hiding something. The best thing to do is to comment on her clothes shes wearing keep telling her she as a great smiule. Or even from time to time tell how much she makes you happy eventually the words "I dont Trust You !!!" Will go away

Well, i dont know about other girls but when i say i dont trust you that is exactly what i mean. You could ask her what the other girls have say to make her not trust. Other than spending all your spare time with her i would not know what can be done to disspell these ideas. If you are truely innocent and she continues to be jealous it could be her self image.

Ok you want an answer so I will give you my answer. I see it this way TRUST is imporant in any realtionship it has to be created and cared for. If you want a women to trust you than show her trust. What I mean by this is depending on the women you must be honest at all times. At least this is how I view it. Never lie and never cheat, always be there no matter what the situation and love her as she loves you. I hope this helps and happy mylotting as well.

i think if you are too close with some other girls, she may think that girls may fall in love with you and vice versa, she's just afraid that she might lose you and you might fall in love with other girls. if you won't do any harm and don't make her see that you are so close with some other girls because she may think as it's flirting.

Well lets see why would she not trust you. hmmm lets see you bring up other girls names for one.What exactly do you mean by taking a girl as a sis anyway does that mean your like hanging out with this other girl while your GF is not around. If thats the case i can see why. As a suggestion if you plan on a long relationship and want other girls as friends then you should only talk to then and see them with your girlfriend so that she knows your not tring to knock it with the person and that you have nothing to hide.

I think she did that because she love you and don't want to loose you.You need to persuade her and show all the girl that you have meet to prove that you are honest and sincere to love her.Have a nice day dude.

You can give up all these sisters of yours....she don't trust the sisters that's all