Do you have a feeling of fraid or want to escape vwhen you will be married?

China
October 23, 2009 9:52am CST
today i chat with my mother.i say if i will be married,maybe i will be escape before the wedding eve.my mother feel so surprised.why ?i don't know .when i was a student,i am eager for being married.i think it's happiness with the man that you really love .but after i graduate, i oftern listen the things that happed on the married people .sometimes i watch the family ethics play suddenly i don't trust marrige.Afraid of the true love will turn into betrayal someday.
3 responses
@carmelbg (519)
24 Oct 09
I think marriage is a huge commitment and can sometimes be considered scary. I have been with my husband since I was 17 and he asked me to marry him a number if times. I did not feel ready when I was younger and thought of marriage as a trap. As I got older my attitude changed, and only when I was 27 did I feel ready for marriage. I think its something you will just know, and even though I was nervous before my wedding I was so happy after we married. We became so much closer and our bond became deeper.
@ilyzium (1197)
• Canada
24 Oct 09
Hi, No I think that if you love the person and know that you're really marrying the right person, you shouldn't really have these feelings in your head. If you're really afraid or having doubts, then to me that shows that marriage to this person is probably the wrong decision and your body is trying to tell you something. One of the keys to a successful marriage I think is marrying the right person for YOU! Every marriage has it's ups and downs, and no marriage is really perfect, but if you're married to the right person, you can solve your problems/issues together.
@yyfyqb (97)
• United States
23 Oct 09
If you love someone, you will never escape before wedding. if you escape, maybe you just like him/her. i have married for two years. I think i am very lucky because i can share something important with my husband in our life. we can face difficulties together, help each other and so on. we also argue about different point, but it never affect our feelings.In my opinion, it is not perfect if you are single while you should be married. For betrayal someday, nobody can tell what will happen in the future.