How to Plan a Child's Birthday Party?

China
October 23, 2009 10:02am CST
Usually, the idea of having a birthday party for a child seems very simple, yet there a lot more to it then it sounds like. Anyone can throw a party, but it doesn't count unless it's fun and full of energy. A birthday party is for the benefit of the birthday child and his or her friends. Of course, it is needed to ensure that everyone has a good time at the birthday party. Do you have the experience to plan a child's birthday party? How to make the birthday child feel special?
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
23 Oct 09
Tomorrow is actually my son's third birthday party. But, this year for him it is going to be very low key. We are just having the family over and we've invited one friend but I doubt that they will show up. My son is absolutely crazy about trains, so I am going to make him a birthday cake with Thomas and Friends trains on the top of it and I am going to attempt to draw some railroad tracks on it as well. My daughter's birthday last year was memorable for her for the simple fact that she got to have some friends to come to her party. This year for her, she's in first grade, I'm not sure what I am going to do. I'm thinking about having a party for her at their gym because she loves gymnastics so much and she is so good at it. Plus, I wouldn't have the mess to clean up.
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@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
23 Oct 09
Hi Dorannmwin, I agree with you , a little kid will just need a birthday cake and they will be happy enough. they are still to young to have a special birthday party , I am talking about age 3 and below. When they are old enough or maybe start schooling, they will deserve a memorable birthday party.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Oct 09
hi getbrowser It has been years since my son was a child but it has always seemed to me that a party for little kids does not have to be supper expensive. Just a birthday cake and ice cream,plus the games little kids love to play, and some little inexpensive gifts for all the participants to win perhaps at some little game. Maybe hire a friend who is a great singer to teach the little ones some of the prevailing kid type songs like the Little Spider, again just keep it simple and not too long.
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@GardenGerty (161006)
• United States
25 Oct 09
It depends on the age. Plan for favorite foods, and favorite friends. It does not have to cost a lot, but it does need to be active. Sometimes it is nice if the guests make something that they can take home with them.
@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
23 Oct 09
Hello Getbrowser, For me, my kids are still more. They yet to go to school and they don't have any school friends now. Basically if we want a party held for them, the guest list will be on the parents friends or relative. So in that case we might get more focus on adults more than on the child. But if happen the child is old enough to remember her birthday party, it is good to get a special big day celebration for them. I am looking forward to hold a grand party for my daughter once she goes to school. MAybe will have it in her school so she could celebrate her birthday with school friends. Then teachers might be a good helper for me.
@celineml (126)
• Malaysia
27 Oct 09
me is agreed vingyan say.last time my girl is 1yr birthday than i got open small patty to her la.but hor no very gd lo.only can call own friend or cousin to this patty.so nx mth is my girl 2yr birthday and me also birthday at nx mth.so me this time no do patty liao.only go out eat v family more gd lo.and buy a gift to my daughter enuf liao.
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@vingyan06 (2486)
• Malaysia
28 Oct 09
Hi Celi, Wishing you girls happy birthday in advance. So your little girl is going to be 2 years old? What is her favorite cake? My daughter is 3 now. 2 months ago we celebrate her 3 years old birthday with our family. We bought a Dora cake for her. What I think is a small family birthday party is more than enough for little kid. When they get older, we can get them a bigger celebration.
@gowriv89 (295)
• India
26 Oct 09
Hi buddy... have a nice day... i haven't arranged for some birthday party yet.... but i recently attended a two years old kid's party.... they arranged the party in a kinder garden rather than preferring some mahal... the kids who attended the party were given some games to play with a reward of chocolates.... so i think this kind of a function will help kids enjoy more playing games with all other kids and learning some new entertainment...
@celineml (126)
• Malaysia
30 Oct 09
hi getbrowser, first time me do for my daughter birthday party at house is small party. But i see that time no very good. Next month is my daughter and me birthday also, so this time my hubby plan do satay celup at home, but also havent comform how to celebra this time birthday. So i will buy one present to my daughter for the Boucing horse hope she will like and happy too.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
24 Oct 09
Hello getbrowser. As to planning a child's birthday party, in our family we usually invite our relatives either to have a nice dinner at home or in a nice restaurant. Recently we have two babies who have just had their one-year-old birthdays in two different nice local restaurants. We went there with a big birthday cake bought from a cake shop specializing in it. This is what we do. Thank you for the discussion, friend. Happy Birthday to the child you refer to!
@celticeagle (168488)
• Boise, Idaho
23 Oct 09
Lots of experience. Each child is an individual so that would enter into it first. the setting, the time, the games, which kids to invite. How long? Don't want it for very long or the kids get bored. Make them feel like what they want to be. Princess, superhero. Like that. Talk to them and get there feed back.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
24 Oct 09
My daughter is going to be turning eight soon. She’s had two birthday parties and both were at two local fast food restaurants that have playgrounds and party facilities. They were the cheapest way to go because she had over 30 children attending. This year she is having a sleep over party where the kids will arrive on Saturday morning, and get picked up again Sunday morning. I will arrange the usual party games like pass the parcel, musical chairs etc. Of course loot bags are vital at any child’s birthday party! Some people invite entertainment at their party such as clowns, a pony or a fairy etc. The food should always be kid friendly of course.
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
23 Oct 09
Hello there. I've hosted many children's birthday or school parties and it was so much fun. I love, even, to decorate the cake or make all the food myself. The birthday child is, of course, the guest of honor, so that is of itself "special." It helps when they get to write out the invitations, too, or help in planning the party. Children love colorful balloons, various games, the special food and punch. Another thing that sets the birthday child apart is when everyone sings Happy Birthday to them, and then he/she gets to open the gifts! Karen
• Boston, Massachusetts
23 Oct 09
Organizing a birthday party is of my favorite events. With kids you have to know their favorites to guide you with the kind of motif for the party. For consistency based on the motif selected, design your invitation according to the kids favorite character or interest. Match it with the color of his/her dress or a costume. Make a guest lists and encourage guest to be in their costume or motif color of the event. Then worked on the type the types of food to serve during party and plan out the program. Make sure to involve everyone in the program/game. Prepare games for kids and adults and combined. Prepare giveaways too. The cake will also match the motif. Make your souvenir/thank you items in line with your motif. documentation of the whole event is very important. Camera and video must also be prepared. This plan is for those with budget and wants to make it extra special/extravagant. For those who wants it simple but fun-- you can still go for the motif, list of food to prepare and more fun games and entertainment and photo/video documentation. You can do away with souvenirs and other extra gimmicks for the party.
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
my suggestions maybe a pool party or party in a park, in a beach resort, a beach with a park which is child friendly. a personalized area according to the theme of the party. "personalized- what i mean is (example the venue is just in the house or in the yard) in which you will build, decorate and make a view according to the theme of the party. visualized example a playhouse!..
@Agoenxz (551)
• Indonesia
23 Oct 09
Yeah... That's the problem. I'm not to good at it... Lol..
• China
24 Oct 09
child's birthday party,i feel no need to spend a lot of money,decorated as more warm,particularly in those let your chlid and his friend feel your love
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
23 Oct 09
My boys always had fun parties! I would let them help me with making the invitations and they got to put them in the slot at the post office. We would plan their favorite games plus some time when people could do whatever they wanted. Everyone loved the balloon stomp! I would blow up dozens of balloons before the party and at some point I would let them drop to the floor and let the children stomp on them till they burst. Clean up was easy because I had a bowl of cheap little prizes for everyone that helped pick up the pieces! We played pin the tail on the donkey, broke pinatas (paper mache figures filled with candy) and one time the pinata would NOT break! I let the kids stomp on it, beat it with sticks, throw rocks at it and finally had to take a hammer to it! We had relay races, too, with prizes at the end. And the water balloon fights were so much fun! Be sure you have lots of fun games and be prepared for a lot of mess. I always asked that guests not bring gifts because I wanted my boys to look forward to seeing their friends, not getting presents. Have some cheap little toys for prizes if you like, kids love that.