How long cn you talk with yourgirlfriend on phone?
By hireshd
@hireshd (490)
India
October 24, 2009 2:08am CST
How long can you talk with your girlfriend on the phone in single call, I have seen people who can talk continuously on the phone with there girlfriends but I am not able to talk for more than 20 mins maximum. I dont understand what to talk for such a long time, even though we are maintaining a long distance relationship but still I cant talk and neither she gets any topic to extend it for a long time.
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20 responses
@ChrysanTflower (1607)
• Indonesia
24 Oct 09
Hi hireshd How are you? I remember, I type my first response on your discussion, about give the present for your girlfriend who live in other country, do you still remember that?
It really depends on my mood and activities. If I'm busy and have a lot of thins=gs to do, I'll refuse to talk to him, send text message or chat is enough. We study in different university, so there always be something to talk, how the lesson that day, extracurricular that we take, our friends, class, etc.
So far, the longest time I've talked to my bf and ex in a single call is 2 hours I was having problem at that time and I told it all to him. He listened and give me the solution and support, that's it.
Hm, I don't think you need to think about certain topic when calling your girlfriend. Just care to each other and ask about her condition, her activity, tell her your feelings at that time or ask for advice.. Hope your relationship will last long!
@hireshd (490)
• India
24 Oct 09
Yes I still remember the comment so nice of you to even remember the users you comment on:)
Yes even I pray for the same but most of the time the situation is she is very busy and soon we are short of topics as we are thinking about work but i wish it ends soon and she can provide inpputs when we talk.
@ChrysanTflower (1607)
• Indonesia
29 Oct 09
Since you are the first discussion starter that I responded to in my first day in myLot, of course I remember you,,hehehe At that time, my number of post still zero, and yours were 25^^,,
Hmm, busy with other activity, actually this is the main problem in long distance relationship. Since we and our partner have different schedule and activities, so it is hard to find the exact time when we and our partner u have nothing to do..
Actually this is my problem too
Anyway, we can't maintain good relationship if there's no communication. Maybe you and her can make some time deal, at what time you will call her and talk for minutes.. At that exact time, busy reason is not allowed and you and her can spend 5-10 minutes to talk.. So, don't immediately call
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
26 Oct 09
Hello hireshd,
I think most guys don't like to be engaged on the phone for more than 15 minutes, maybe... *smiles* When I was just started dating, I used to hang on the phone for as long as I could. Sometimes, the single conversation could lasted for an hour or two. It is not what need to talk that is more important but for me, when I can communicate with someone that I love so much, I feel much closer to him. Anyway, I was in a long distance relationship and that time, to make a phone call is the easier way - not like now where you can text or email or even chat online. As for now, the longest conversation that I can make is maybe not more than 15 minutes!
@scififan43 (2434)
• United States
28 Oct 09
I have a long distace relationship with my girlfriend as well. we live almost 3 hours apart from another. we have talked on the the phone for 3 to four hours somtimes contuinesly or while we IM each other. I ask my gf this question and she said that talking on the phone is the next best thing to being with the other person or your spical someone. AS for me I love to talk to her for the same reason. I will alwasy find some thing to talk about while we are on the phone so we do not get board and the conversations will stay going. but sometimes I will not sayanthing and listen to what is going on in her house when she is having to pase for a few moments and take care of things around the house.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
25 Oct 09
For me I didn't use that way with my boyfriend because I like to have not long distance relationship.
@shadow41 (2351)
• Philippines
25 Oct 09
Usually we talk on the phone for an average of 30 minutes per call. But sometimes it's not enough. One time we talked for 80 minutes. :) But there were also times when we don't have much to say that 10 minutes of talking is long enough.
shadow41
@solared (1207)
• United States
24 Oct 09
The most I ever talked was 9 hours, that is about my max, I don't know how, also I'am notorious for keeping conversations going even though on of us has to leave, it's like all this stuff comes to me at the last second, an then I have tons more to talk about.
Also I pretty much text all day...lol
@SouStalker (97)
• Indonesia
25 Oct 09
well,i have long distance relationship with my girlfriend. sometimes i call her and talk 2 hours and not more !! i think thats enough to talk about everything. but sometimes when im busy,im just call her for 5-10 minutes,just to cheer her up.
@Chrisdude (75)
• United States
24 Oct 09
It depends considering I do not Have a girlfriend
at the moment none
But when I was talking with a girl I was intrested in
I was able to talk to her for a good 30-45 min
The Main Thing is
how deep is your relationship with her
is it based just on looks
or are you attracted to her brains and personality
because if you are then there should be no reason why you
will have trouble talking to her for an extended period of time
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
I talk with a strangers for more than 2 hours and to my boyfriend for more than 5 hours non-stop when were are still new in a relationship. As the relationship get bored talking is reduced and seem topics becomes uninteresting. Unless a new interesting topics get alive again and talk continued again for an hours.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
24 Oct 09
Well, when I was in college I had a girl friend and unfortunately or fortunately There is no such heavy rush of mobile phone. If it was in todays' form may be I could end up in borrowing money. Or I could talk and talk. But now the situation is different and can not say how long I would be speaking to my girl friend.
@getbrowser (1708)
• China
24 Oct 09
Without any stop, I can talk with your girlfriend on the phone in single call for more than 3 hours.
You know, for the reason of education, my girlfriend and I have to keep away from each other. So, I will talk continuously on the phone with my girlfriend for a long time once I have called her. Yes, to maintain a long distance relationship is not a easy thing. Almost every time, when we hang up, then I will receive a message like this: Sorry, the subscriber you dialed is out of service. All my fee has benn cost for the call.
Happy myLotting! Good luck!
@mrnischalgurung (424)
• India
24 Oct 09
I can talk as long as i am free and had credit. maybe sometimes the whole night . . . about 8 to 9 hours