i don't want to lose him..

Hello, I am sorry about your dilemma. I have learned along time ago to follow my instincts. If your instincts are tell you to message him, go for it. There are so many things I wish I could ask you first. I will have to go by what you wrote. If you make him mad and you can not control that, that's really not good.. You asked for help on what to say. Why don't you say to him what you have said to us my lotter's... That your afraid to lose him, and really let him know your true feelings. But, please be careful. If you do make him mad all the time, that's really not good... if you really care about him, you will find a way not to do this all the time. Thats a sure way of losing someone..No one likes drama all the time..be careful

Hey would you like some help? You could give me his contact and I would approach him as your friend from a far place and i would ask him how are you doing and so on, since I saw somewhere you are friends (facebook or whatever the social community you use, or you just called me on phone). This way, I could get you the information you need, without he suspecting anything :p I could also try to perform some reconciliation act, but this is not something I'm used too

appolgise to him, and explain things, let him tell you why he got cranky as well. have a good d and m. if he likes you enough he'll respond. take the plunge at least then you know you tried, it might take him a bit to get over it but he may come back. oxox

Well, do not let yourself to wait longer if you love him you say him..it is good than to dilly dally as time is gold, opportunity knock only once. Whatever the outcomes have to be brave to face it than end up blaming self without trying as you may never know what the person is thinking unless you dare to try it.

Do you know that there is a thin line between love and hate. People get emotional and argue but they usually cool off and do some thinking. If this is really your true love, you won't loose him because of this. I bet he is scratching his head wondering where your messages are but too proud to write you himself. Email him a greeting card. Tell him how you feel.

send him a love message right now! i think if he knows that you love him, he is waiting for your message.

hi iloveorange Why not go with your gut feeling as I know 'most women who do that cannot go wrong.we all have that sixth sense. So send him a message now, You have nothing to lose and he just might want to be hearing from you. Just start like you always have , be gentle and loving' and tell him what you have told us.Tell him you love him,if he truly loves you he will respond. It would be better if you two could meet as this online has its difficulties in that ' sometimes people play hoaxes on each other. good luck . let us know how you make out.

Cooling down. Both of you needs time to cool down. You are afraid of losing him, but does he feel the same? We probably won't know that. However, it's time to let time decide whether this is just a passing argue or the end. Focus on friends you still have, lessens more on trying to get him back. Your friends are probably felt left out (even if they deny this) if you are to worry about him. Besides, this time he had to deal his cards. You can't be the only want giving this a chance. In fact, try to find new friends, friends you can say practically anything about this guy, as right now you have two choices, contact him and ask point blank whether both of you still friends or it is too fragile to stood against the issue. Another choice, is to distract yourself with a new place to talk about him, until you practically had enough that you will either choose to forget him, or go for the first choice. For example, start by being my friend! _

well what you have is just surface feelings because you have not meet personally. try ask him again and whatever will be his reply thats what will happen.

Anyone who treats you like that is clearly no worthy of being with you. If you really care about him you should stop messaging him and see if he really cares about you and he tries to contact you. Because if it true love then it will find a way to bring you two Together no matter what. Just believe in Fate and that god has a plan for you and he just wants you to be happy

Oh my, What i can say girl? We have same situation! I knew how hard it is getting sick of think that interesting guy, then feel to much happy whenever you catch him online. Especially if you also feel that he feel same way too.. ohh such a wonderful feeling that hard to explain. But for my own opinion friend if u really want to work out your relationship with him you have to be brave enough and risk everything! You knew low down your pride and reconcile there nothing lost, you dont knew him personaly so if he still deny to communicate then its his lost not yours...but if he like you that much, then I knew love will see you though... Just be brave friend and move on...