Time to move on...?

I've been there once and asked myself the same questions as that. I decided to finally let go when the pain that I was feeling was stronger than the love that I am feeling for my partner. I did my best to fight for our relationship and to hold on. But he doesn't seem to be doing the same thing. He made me feel like I am the only one willing to save our relationship. In a relationship, it has to be a team work. Both of you should be doing your part in your relationship. If there's only one who is functioning, then it will end no matter how much you wanted it to work. If you think that you have done your best, and still have that doubt feeling, you might want to sit down first, think about your situation and reflect on everything that has been happening. Are you both willing to work it out? Or is it just you?

Someone asked this question last nite and i gave a lengthy answer but it all boils down to if there's more bad times than good its time to cut the cord, that way you might have a chance to remain friends.

I think the length of the relationship is a factor. Have you two been together for a long time, or a short while? The longer you two have spent together, the harder you should try to stay together. I think you know that the relationship is over when you feel a sense of defeat. I don't mean just a little bit of hopelessness or failure, but udder defeat. When you have tried everything but you just know that nothing is going to fix it. That is when you should move on. And if you both find that after some time apart you cannot get over eachother and still feel that you should be together, then maybe you could give it another try. People just need breaks from eachother sometimes. My advice to keep it together would be to try and remember why you fell inlove with this person, what drew you two together. Try to rekindle that. Go on a date that you would have went on when you started dating. Maybe all you guys need is a reminder as to why you are together.