If there is no love...
By judy19989
@judy19989 (65)
China
October 24, 2009 11:08pm CST
If there is no love between lovers,do you think they can make friend still for each other? I have a experience and i think it is impossible generally, regardless how calm when the lovers parted, after the meeting fromm each other is still far from natural, maybe i haven't yet liberalized and found the best ways to face the things,what can i to do, i know that everyone must go through in their life.But it is really hard to do for me who still young and doesn't have much life experience...My dear friends,do you have any good suggestions for me?
Nice day!
2 responses
@shalli17here (627)
• Indonesia
25 Oct 09
yes of course, it's possible. I've been there done that, that's why i can say this. The main point is that both persons have to be able to accept that they're not into each other again, and if they pushing it, it will just hurting each others. And then after they accepted the fact, the friendship is more worthed now. It takes a communication, a discussion of what and how will both doing it as a friend, not again a lovers. Once they got a "one voice", it will works..
Good luck Judy =D and happy mylotting
@judy19989 (65)
• China
25 Oct 09
Hi shalli, thanks for you reply and i'll benefit from it,if we be able to handle things well maybe someday we can get a "one voice",like you said,if we have friendship still,it will be more valuable...thanks agian!
@fauziibrahim (104)
• Malaysia
25 Oct 09
yes, when there are no love between lover they can still be friend. It is depending on out own perception.
@judy19989 (65)
• China
26 Oct 09
yeah, you are right,it's just a matter of time to face it...
nice day!
