Why do gossippers can not stop meddling the affairs of other people?
By berting600
@berting600 (3453)
Philippines
October 26, 2009 1:09am CST
These people are the igniters of events,which makes the situation more complicated than let it be settled by the involved personalities.They make headlines that made them popular,and thereby they have lots of followers to patronized their gossips.The
news are believed to be true,but do they saw what are their mistakes in life?They are just good babblers to others,which makes them forget that they are also has many
mistakes in life,that needs to be eliminated,by stopping their meddling other,and just mind their own business.
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9 responses
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
Gossipers are the type of people who love sharing gossips.
Their day will not be complete unless they have something to gossip to.
For them life is a carnival ride and they want to talk about everything else
under the sun.
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
Thank you very much for the response.I do believed in your observations,but they are also aware that someone would also meddle in their internal affairs,that is why they are much more afraid of their shadows.
@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
I believe that people who gossips are those who are insecure with themselves. They thrive in putting other people down, in hope that they would somehow feel better about themselves. Unfortunately, the gratification they get from a certain bashing of a person is short-lived so they go at it again and again just so that they can sustain the feeling of being better than others. They fail to realize that by trying to destroy others, they are actually destroying themselves because no one will ever trust them anymore.
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
Thank you very much for the response.That is very true because they do not want that other would also gossips their misseries.
@robert19ph (4577)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
hello berting600,
is what they are paid and good for. to find interesting news no matter what. what's important is that they have something to talk about that everyone will give a point and time to be updated. the worst gossip and intrigue they will prevail the more people will watch their show and listen to them. and if that will happen, they will become more famous and their ratings will surely go higher.
for most people if not all are waiting for the heresay than the other way around.
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
Thank you very much for the response.Yes!that is good for show business or anything
that are from famous stars,but that is not good for just a plain person,especially when they are talking about me or you.That is another story.
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@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
Thanks for the response.You can observed these scenes in the slump areas,where many
dwellers have no other things but spread gossips to whom they like to meddle.
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@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
These guys have skeletons in their closet so to speak that they'd rather divert the attention to others that on themselves. Besides gossip is a good past time, i often see neighbors, housewives normally (I admit some colleagues of mine also do this) who have nothing to do to pass time talking about anything under the sun. Gossip is just like watching a soap opera where something new unfolds everyday and the story seems endless. Cheers!
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
Thank you very much for your response.I always hear my neighbors meddling my other
neighbor,but I just do not mind their business,as long as they do not gossips me when I am not in their front.
@stevenmoore88 (13)
• United States
27 Oct 09
Honestly, the problem with most gossipers, is that they have absolutley no lie of their own. Usually these people don't have real friends, the ones they talk to on a daily basis, are just other gossipers. Nothing interesting ever happens to them and they are so bored with their own life that they seek out other's who have interesting things happen to them. After listening to someone elses tale, or making up their own, they then have no one to tell it to. Being as how they have no real friends. So then they talk to whoever will listen. Spreading everyone elses buisness all over the place.
@eowens (10)
• United States
27 Oct 09
If everyone would ignore the gossipers it would all go away, but there is always some nut who is going to believe the gossip. That is when it gets crazy and someone always gets hurt. Some gossipers try to pretend they have not done anything wrong, but anytime you tell a story about someone else, whether you believe it is the truth or a lie, it is gossip. Do you remember the game we played as a kid where everyone sat in a circle and whispered something to the person next to them? Everyone was supposed to whisper the same thing that was whispered to you, but somehow, by the time the whisper made it back to the person who started it, it was an entirely different phrase or sentence.
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
Thank you very much for the response.I am with you about that point because they have already voiced out the news,so there are no needs to spread it any farther,that the gossip would surely be heard by all.That is their way of life.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
26 Oct 09
..I think you're being funny.. gossipers are gossipers.. Gossiping is their job so they meddle with other people's lives.. Maybe the thing that you should say is, why can't other people stop meddling with other people's lives? There are really people who are like that no matter where you go.. These people will test your humbleness and patience.. Sometimes, it is really nice to talk to these people and correct their mistake.. It is indeed very wrong to meddle with other people's lives.. believe me, those gossipers will not like their lives to meddled too.. I just hope they realize that all people wanted a peaceful life and meddling with other people's lives create fractions and misunderstanding..
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
Thank you for your response.I am just reacting to these people who have movable eyes and scrutinizing imaginations to stop their meddlings because in the process they just not hurt anybodies feelings,but also theirs.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
6 Dec 12
I totally agree, I think that gossipers should stop meddling in other people's business, and mind their own. I guess that's the only reason they like to talk to people and when someone has a problem, they say oh, you can talk to me. Then later they go and tell the whole world what you just said. I don't like gossipers and me personally, I don't gossip, because eventually its going to one day come back and bite you in the bud. And it could really back fire on you. That is why people shouldn't gossip in the first place.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
12 Dec 12
You are right people should not gossips with others behind us. Mostly this habit is in women but some men also such habit this is not good. Recently I read a discussion here women killed only because of gossiping.