Do we have the right to blame other people when our life is in trouble?

Yeah, some times I can't help complaining my parents as they are not care about me.But actually, I know it's none of their business. I just feel to depressed about what I encountered with and I don't know how to share with them.When they ask me about it, I am too impatient to explain clearly.

Blaming other people won't make the problem go away. It's either we act or we let problem go worse. It's our life, our choice, our problem. We don't have the right to blame other people because whatever is happening in your life youn are to blame. That's what i always say to myself when things get tough so that i wll actually try harder and stay strong.

i dont think that blaming others can help anybody with any trouble.. it will only worsen the situation and destroy relationships.. like what you said..we are responsible for our actions..and it should stay that way.. acting accordingly is never wrong.. :)

It is indeed our initial reaction to blame others but we should learn to stop ourselves and consider our own actions first. Blaming others is never a solution, instead you are only making yourself bitter and causing a strain to your relationship with other people. I don't think it is ever the right thing to do in any situation.

I agree that we are responsible for own actions, and do not have to right to blame others for all the pain and troubles that we encounter. I think our problem is our responsibility to solve it right a way. I dont think blame others could make our problem solved. That's all just wasting time afterall. So face the problem and solve it for good. Thanks and have a nice time..:)

I don't think its right to blame others if our lives are in trouble because we are the one's who make decisions for ourselves. Their should be no one to blame when aout lives starts to suck but ourselves alone..

no, whenever I am in trouble i never blame it to others as maybe I have the desire to finish a project but then it do not comes out successfully. Then, i already know my mistakes then have to correct it after I already identify and the next times i encounter the same things i know now how I could handle it. My mistakes could even be serves as my starting point where i could learn to talk with my worries for free. Then, have to find a solution to make my worries vanish. Thus, from the worst experience up to the little one could develop more confidence to prove that one self could solve it alone without asking for other to help.

These days, nobody is prepared to take responsibility - they prefer to be seen as a victim. It's probably a more comfortable feeling than thinking that you contributed to your own troubles, but usually that is the truth of the situation. You're a victim if you get murdered or caught up in a serious accident. Losing your savings because of bad financial advice, or something like that, doesn't make you a victim, just a person who took the wrong advice. If more people thought like that, the world would be a happier place.

We don't have the right to blame others for our failure in life. We always have the choice to do good and make extra effort to be good and successful in life.

some people blame there failures to others this what we called displacement it is one of the personality management to maintain our mind of state in psychiatry.although blaming other people is not right and what our failures or trouble come we need to face it also also ask help if the situation makes worst.help of your parents,relatives and friends are very important.to make it clear it is not right to blame your mistake or failures to other people but it is also one way of coping from stress events.

No we are not entitled to anything just because people helped us before dosen't mean they are obligated to keep helping us, every action is a result of some choice we made in the past.

Hi we have no right to blame others for troubles in our lives as we are the only one to be responsible for it.But when we are sad and hopeless,we started criticizing others for not guiding us when we require it most.but there are some people too who sometimes,knowingly or unknowingly force you in trouble i think we should be patient and wait for the right time.