Would you go and pursue someone who is already on a relationship with another?
@bryandairogarcia (265)
Philippines
October 26, 2009 3:12am CST
Most of people fall at the wrong place at the wrong time. Some choose to wait till that person they like falls out of love with the current partner while others take it head on. What if the person does not fall out of love? Would you keep waiting? How much is too much and how much is too less attention? Should you even concern yourself with that kind of a relationship or better move on and find someone else?
I believe people have soul mates somewhere in another part of the globe or maybe even in the same land they are in. I also believe that not all soul mates find each other early in their life when they can still cherish their youth. Some don't even find each other until they go into the spirit world.
If you feel you found your soul mate but that person is in another relationship would you go save her? How are you even sure you are saving her and not taking her away from her real soul mate?
3 responses
@lealuvy2j (1986)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
I wouldn't pursue someone who is already in a relationship because being in a relationship myself, I would not want for anyone to pursue my boyfriend while we are still together. I believe in Karma and I know that if I did that, far worse things can happen to me. On the other hand, I agree that love can work in mysterious ways and that soulmates will in time find each other but Respect for other people's feelings should also be part of priorities because in doing this, we will gain more respect for ourselves.
@bryandairogarcia (265)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
I agree love does work in mysterious ways.
Would if it was a man wanting to court a girl who is already in a relationship would it be any better to ask permission from the girl? Or do you just let your feelings die out.
As they say, you'll never know until you try right?
@lealuvy2j (1986)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
I think you should just let your feelings die out because if the girl is really meant for you right now, she wouldn't be in a relationship and in time you two would be together. Who knows right? Maybe, they will break up soon. lol. I think that when it comes to matters of the heart, timing is key to everything.
@bryandairogarcia (265)
• Philippines
26 Oct 09
Surely not with married couples -no way! Looking at your response I'd say you are a guy, am I right? Interesting, do men and women have opposite thoughts in this discussion? Men tend to fight for their love while women (I just think) might say wait for the right time and things like if it is for you then it's going to be yours.
All is fair in love and war -I agree. It's a matter of how you'll fight for love or war, I guess
