sometimes its just too hard to control your emotions.

@laiza14 (593)
Philippines
October 26, 2009 8:08pm CST
what if you are in a relationship, and then somebody just came along. you didn't expect him/her to come, but you enjoyed each other's company. and then one day you realize that you are beginning to like him/her. like you always think of him/her, and you always want to be with him/her. you are beginning to think that its just alright cause its just nothing, just pure friendship. but do you thing you are not just being true to yourself? oh, emotions..why is it so hard to stop you?
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@stee09 (101)
• Ireland
27 Oct 09
Damn do i know this situation. The questions to ask your self should be is it worth it, will it last, is it real or just friendship and should I really give up what I have for this. If you cant answer yes to all of these stick to what you have my friend you don't wanna break someones heart for no reason. I was involved in a relationship like this and it turned out I lost a friend because she wanted something I didn't and from embarrassment we stop talking to each other. Hope this helps even a little good luck either way with your choice.
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@Bobli08 (18)
• China
27 Oct 09
Emotions is the description of myself what we like or dislike.But sometime it is helpful to myself to decide what to do or not.Of course, if you want to become his or her good friend,you would like him/her to accompany with you together. Sometimes emotion cause ourself to do wrong thing, do some decision which we don't like to do.
@Gesusdid (1676)
• United States
27 Oct 09
Emotions for another espically in a relationship taken seriously , To me all that is a TEST , its a test within yourself , Can Really be faithful , Do you really love that person? If ur not then you didnt love him/her at the beginning of the relationship , its harsh to say but its the truth . Emotions can be blocked out , only if u really adore the one ur with..i kno its strict but thats how i stand , i see women all the time and think nothing of it , sometimes have a conversation with em , but nothing is there , nothing is appealing to me , Sure everyone fantisizes but theres that choice of do u act upon it ? Will u act upon that emotions that are brewing ,,,goodluck to u
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@mylo2008 (55)
• United States
27 Oct 09
Are you happy? Relationships does not always last forever and for you to be constantly thinking of this person means that there is perhaps something missing from your current relationship. Or, it could be that he is just something new and different and it peaks your interests. Take your time and don't immediately react to your emotions. He just may turn out to be a jerk or the one for you.
@solared (1207)
• United States
27 Oct 09
IF you love the one your with, then you should distance yourself from the friend so you don't ruin your relationship, or question if something is missing in your relationship if you are not married to that person then maybe its time to end things an see what happens with the friend assuming they are interested.
@bluray (408)
• Singapore
27 Oct 09
Yes laiza,sometimes its too hard to control the emotion.some times we pretend to speak things which are heart does Not approve too.liking for somebody grows unknowingly and our face pretends there is nothing more to it than friendship.we try to fool ourselves.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
27 Oct 09
hi laiza yes sometimes we let emotions over rule our common sense but other times when we feel so strongly this attraction we need to take a good look at our relationship and ask if we really love this person. If you cannot get that l word out, it is time to end this relationship.Perhaps this new somebody is the right somebody for you.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
27 Oct 09
Oh, well. Sometimes emotions are hard to control even if you know know it will lead you to nothing or trouble. It's natural to a person to like or admire someone before you become friends but not to the e extend that you want something more from that person. A too much attention from a certain person is a another thing. Yes, you're in a denial stage, a afraid to admit you are already emotionally attached to that person. If I'm in the situation and I am committed probably I will control my self over that thing before i commit a sin. Anyway, why are you asking thing thing? Hmmmm... are you hooked up with someone? are you're starting to like another person?
@irene3184 (898)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
Different people define emotions in different ways. Some make a distinction between emotions and feelings saying that a feeling is the response part of the emotion and that an emotion includes the situation or experience, the interpretation, the perception, and the response or feeling related to the experience of a particular situation. Emotions operate on many levels. They have a physical aspect as well as a psychological aspect. Emotions bridge thought, feeling, and action – they operate in every part of a person, they affect many aspects of a person, and the person affects many aspects of the emotions.
• Nigeria
27 Oct 09
trustically, you sound right.Am sure something inside of someone must really be responsible for not being able to control personal emotion, just as people we say that different blood flow in our vein, please do not talk this for joke may be God drop no emotion in my blood when i was created, but for one reason the feeling may be true all you have to do is to be sincere with yourself and ask in the closet of you heart if truely you are in the love. happy lotting.