Love took a long time coming around , but its here
By RobinJ
@RobinJ (2501)
Canada
October 26, 2009 10:46pm CST
Good evening,
Tonight I would like to discuss relationships. Mine and yours.I believed that I would never find my soul mate,lover,friend and companion. A few years ago I threw caution to the wind and went on line to one of those dating sites, the one I choose was free. I submitted my first profile on November 2007, and I talked to, wrote to more than 100 men, I also met about 15 in person and actually dated about 7. I was about to give up and throw in the towel when I tried one more time. Well long story short, he is my soul mate my lover, friend and companion. Far more than I ever dreamt or wished for.
So I would like to hear from all those people who finally found love at long last, please share your story, I would love to hear them all
Thank you
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10 responses
@Grandmaof2 (7579)
• Canada
27 Oct 09
Well congrats to you Robin!!! I couldn't be any happier for you!!! I have had two husbands, not at the same time of course, hehehehe. I am just so done and I do mean so done with men !!! I do however wish you all the happiness ever.
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@JULIETA0814 (10)
• Colombia
27 Oct 09
Hello RobinJ...
What a pleasure to read your story, I'm glad your happiness. But unlike you, unfortunately I can't tell a happy story, as I have loved only once in their lives, my first and only boyfriend, who was once for all, more than two years ago and since then, I had fallen in love. I just hope and hope that some day come the love of my life, I hope it's soon ... meanwhile, I'm dedicated 100% to God, my family, my carrer, the service to others, friends, but not to relationship. :(
A hug!! ... Be blessed!!
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@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
28 Oct 09
I am so happy to hear that someone such as yourself has found love. I think it is wonderful!
However, I don't have a "love story" to share with you. I have searched before for love and it never worked out for me. I've come to a conclusion that I am going to focus on my children and let love find me. I know someday my true love will come and until then I am going to be happy giving all my love to my children.
I wish you and your love all the happiness in the world!
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
6 Nov 09
Hello, RobinJ. You are lucky to have found love when you almost gave up hoping. For sure everyone of us is meant to be loved and to love. Love always surrounds us. We see it from the kindness of the strangers we never thought exist.Love is everywhere. Finding the one person we are meant to spend the rest of our lives with is a heaven sent.I thought i have found mine but,I was wrong. He's not worth keeping. I hope the love you feel for your man and the love he feels for you will sustain your relationship for a lifetime. Goodluck.:-)
@climber7565 (2579)
• United States
19 Feb 10
I am glad you found your soul mate. Its inspirational to read your post. I guess I am not alone on that department and makes me feel better. I have been in contact with many women who I thought may be interested and likewise had been odd and many times painful. I have finally also found someone who I matched with and things are going well. So wish me luck and maybe this is my last stop. :)
@irene3184 (898)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
I have been a party goer and never ever imagined that I can found someone right now who well respect me for who I am without recalling my past mistakes and the very shameful thing that I ever done in my life.He was so proud of me and we love each other.This is my happy story and want him to be with my life forever.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
27 Oct 09
Hi irene: past is nothing,it's all about what you want to make in your life now. If someone has commit mistakes they're just there to make us know that we could be better. I'¡m glad to know that you can find the right person when you wouldn't imagine that this could happend. Hope love continues with you for your entire life.
@abbey19 (3106)
• Gold Coast, Australia
27 Oct 09
Hi Robin - long time no see! Glad to see you are still around here.
When I read your discussion, I was thrilled to read that you have found your soulmate - and so glad you gave it one more shot. You just never know what's round the corner!
I haven't got a story like that to share because I have been married to the same wonderful man for the past 43 years, but I just wanted to share your joy and wish you both all the best for the future. I am so happy for you sweetie.
@mohitseth (568)
• India
27 Oct 09
love is around me also.
i found my girl friend on yahoo messenger.then we started chatting and now we talk on phone and two weeks ago we finally dated.
i love her very much and care for her.she also likes me but she is introvert.
but i stil love her.
happy mylotting.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
27 Oct 09
Hi Robin: wow, congratulations, lookslike a fairy tale come true, that's the kind of stories i'd love to hear specially from mylotters friends. I have joined some date sites but never come back again so i didn't know that the could really work. Hope you enjoy the rest of your life with your soul mate. As people said, you must not lose your hope. God bless you both. Have a nice day.
@bronzie12 (18)
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27 Oct 09
hi robinJ,
good to read your story..mine is..unfortunately, i tried to go on some chatrooms before..and i met this guy..it seems so true and trusted..we chatted for almost 8 months, till we finally decided to meet, after the meeting, we still continue our communication, till we are about to settle down..but then one day i tried to give him a call..and i found out that he is already staying with another girl and they soon to be marry..isnt it weird..it really break my heart.
sooooo..from that day on, i lost my hope about LDR or online relationship, im not against at all..but for me..no at all..LOL..