how often do you tell people you are not okay?

Australia
October 26, 2009 11:58pm CST
another discussion prompted this thought. when people ask you how you are or as if your okay, is your automatic response "i'm okay/alright" or "yeah, im fine"? is that response always truthful? do you wish you had responded differently? if you were to actually say to someone - "actually, no i feel like crap.", how would they react? do you think they'd listen, do you think they'd care? its amazing to think how much we bypass our emotions to get on with the menial. i know that i always do this. im prone to the bad day or two but i always tend to hide it. i dont want others to know what im feel or the things that are going on. at tthe sime time i knwo that if i did talk about it, maybe i would feel a sense of relief - being able to get things off my chest. do you do this? what is your reaction to it?
1 response
@sameroad (3179)
• United States
27 Oct 09
i always tell people i am okay or fine even if i am not okay. i don't talk about my problems with other people. i have a hard time opening up and expressing myself. sometimes i really want to talk to someone but never feel like i can open to anyone so i keep it all inside. i don't want others to know how i feel... and i'm not sure why? its like i fear it or something.. i don't know but i always lie and say i'm okay.
• Australia
27 Oct 09
i completely understand this feeling and i ponder the reasons why. maybe i am embarrased? maybe i feel there is something wrong with me? mabye i think that others will think there is something wrong with me? maybe they wont care? maybe i dont want to burden them maybe i just want to hide from the truth? everyone has there own reasons for not wanting to share, i think, even if they dont know what they are. i dont think that not sharing is a bad thing necessarily. as long as you talk to people when your really not okay. other than that, i thinnk it is a persons perogative to not talk about themselves. hey its their life, not anyone elses.