A seafarers wife...
By oasis_9
@oasis_9 (831)
Philippines
October 27, 2009 1:39am CST
I really don't know how to put it but i just chatted with my friend's husband. He is a seafarer and is away for from home for most times of the year. They only get to talk on the phone or chat when his ship docks or if they could have a signal on-board. The pay is great i have to admit that but at price too. They just got married this year and they have no kids yet. But what if they'll start having children of their own wouldn't it be difficult for my friend to care for their children alone? I know i can't handle it...
How about you what you opinion on long distance relationship and how could you make it last?
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@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
27 Oct 09
Long Distance Relationships.. I cannot think of it. Well, I have had a personal experience of being into a long distance relationship and have seen many such instances as well. All Long Distance Relationships end at some point of time. They cannot be carried till lifelong, infact not for a very long duration as well.
What do you think? Lets take an example.. I propose you and you say yes after talking to me and seeing me online and taking all other prospects into consideration. Being distances apart, we don't have any chance of meeting ever in out lives.So obviously, that factor will come into your mind. No one can be ever satisfied being into a long distance relationship, because when you know you have someone special in your life who cares for you and who loves you, then definitely you would like to have him/her near by you and not far distances apart.
@oasis_9 (831)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
If you have agreed on having a long distance relationship both of you must be strong in-order for your relationship to survive. Its just sad that they'd be away from each other for a long time and whenever her husband would come home its only for a month or so...
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@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
27 Oct 09
Yeah i could understand that situation and that y I presented my personal thoughts on this. Is very difficult to be away from your loved ones.
