are you a good kisser?
By janebeth
@janebeth (2032)
Philippines
October 27, 2009 3:07am CST
hi friends,
i am happy because i am back, back for good and giving you another question and i hope you can drop by and leave some comments in here..
well my boyfriend now for 5 years and 2 months is my first boyfriend since birth, and i am so proud of it. and i hope he will be my last.!!
back to the topic, at first i really don't know how to kiss a guy, for our first kiss i was very embarrassed because i bit his lip so hard, and it really hurts for him and to the point that it bleeds so well.. , well he can't blame me because i am a first timer.. haha, but now honestly he really appreciates me for being a fast learner and a good kisser as well (i hope it's true)....
how about you friend, can you share a little bit of your experience in here..
thank you for dropping by and have a great day.!!
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13 responses
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
27 Oct 09
i hate this kind of topic. really. how could you tell that the responder actually telling the truth or just wants to flirt with you. i mean, if i say yes, i am a good kisser, will you immediately believe in me? or how could you prove it? why not try it?
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@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
oh i am so sorry dear if you don't like this topic, but i think you also have a point in there.. but for me i think he is telling the truth, why lie to your long time girlfriend?? if he don't like it well surely he will look for another girl to replace me..
@jalucia (1431)
• United States
28 Oct 09
Great to see that you're in good spirits. You probably bit your bf, back then, because you were nervous or trying to hard. Everyone has different kissing styles. But, when it all comes down to it kissing just happens. If you're really into somebody your emotions will lead the way for your lips .... and your tongue. Everyone might not appreciate your style of kissing, but it is your personal style.
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@EnglishTeaDuck (862)
• United States
28 Oct 09
You bit him? Hmm, I'd save that for a bit later, not the first kiss!
Funnily enough, I remember my very first kiss as one of the best I ever had. I was 16 (aaaah!) The real best one was the first time my husband kissed me (before he was my husband, obviously) I actually have a photo of me taken a few minutes after, we were sitting on rocks by the sea.
I also remember some outstandingly bad one, the worst being at a party when I was 18 - I was kissed by a guy I danced with and it was, I swear, like having my face vacuumed. I literally went to the bathroom and washed my mouth out afterwards.
I don't really know if I am a 'good kisser' - I would like to think so, but its hard to tell something like that about yourself!
I am sure if you are getting in plenty of practice your boyfriend is quite happy!
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
28 Oct 09
It takes two. I am told that I am a good kisser but I have never kissed myself so I'm only going on what I hear. As for you....I'm sure he is very grateful that you are no longer giving him lip bleeds. It can only go upward on the kissing scale from that. You are funny.
@mentalward (14690)
• United States
27 Oct 09
Hi janebeth. First, let me say it's good to see you again! I'm glad to hear that you are back for good!
Now, am I a good kisser? Well, I've been told I am. I guess it really depends on who you're kissing, someone with a lot of experience or someone with no experience. I think I am a good kisser.
I've had boyfriends who were HORRIBLE kissers. One used to come at me with his mouth wide open; so wide that a bird could have flown in there! He scared me! LOL I always backed away from that big mouth! (That relationship didn't last long.)
My very first boyfriend had no experience, just like me. Our kisses were awkward, but they were okay, I guess. Having no other kisses to compare to, they worked.
@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
thank you MW, and i hope i can drop in here sometimes.. that was really horrible MW, wide mouth that a bird could flown inside?? , i can't really imagine their facial expressions specially the shape of their mouth.. maybe he is really hot that's why he acts like that..
@srganesh (6340)
• India
7 Jan 10
Almost all of us would have missed the art when first kiss is concerned.Eagerness,excitement,thrill,......all would have diverted our concentration and we could not experience the kiss as what it would be.Later on,after some more attempts we learn the art and know how it would be as a giver and receiver.After all,practice makes things perfect.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
27 Oct 09
The first woman who I kiss is a woman who became my wife now.
When I first kissed her, I was shaking and nervous extraordinary. Without talking or asking permission to her, I immediately kissed her lips with open my mouth wide and eat it like eating a watermelon ...
@mohitseth (568)
• India
27 Oct 09
i am not a good kisser.
i feel shy and nervous while kissing.
but perfection is achieved by hardwork so i will try to improve.
happy mylotting.
@solared (1207)
• United States
28 Oct 09
Ok 1st off, she is not my wife, 2nd I have never kissed her she only wishes, 3rd I hate that name solarwife, apparently when I sent out my referrals she was still on my contact list...anyways I'm not happy about an she isn't exactly contributing other than saying dumb things an talking about me.
An how do you know about her, have you been following my responses because she hasn't commented on anything you have to my knowledge.
@beabenitez (153)
• Philippines
7 Jan 10
ahhh first kiss. time stopped when i do it with the one i love...so gentle and yest so subtle...it really energize me...the next is like an experiment to make the art of kissing perfect.