did you ever quarrel with your parents?

@buping (952)
China
October 27, 2009 5:21am CST
hi friends, did u ever quarrel with your mom or dad? i was very depressed those days for i quarreled with my mom few days ago and i shouted at her when i was very angry, i felt regret and apologized to her, but she said that is ok, there is no mom in this world will be angry about their kids, the words made me cry when i heard. i would never make such a stupid mistake.
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@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
27 Oct 09
I think that everyone quarrels with their parents from time to time especially since as children we all go through our rebel stage,as I am sure our parents went through the same thing,and I quarrel with my parents even though I try not to,it is just that sometimes they say things that piss me off,or they annoy me,and then we start yelling at each other even though things are okay after a while,and it is always good to apologize when you fight and not let the fights get under your skin,because your parents are the ones who brought you into this world,and you only have one set,and you should cherish them while they are around,since you never know what is going to happen,or when you are going to lose the ones you love.
• United States
29 Oct 09
Parents do everything for us,so we should always say we are sorry and stop things before they go to far,since words are hurtful,and you can never take back anything you say even though I know people wish they could.
@buping (952)
• China
29 Oct 09
hi hellcowboy, you are right, the parents bring you to this world and raise you up, their love to you is no selfish and without asking for return. in a quarrel, if you did say anything serious, opology is useless. the words hurt. but quarrel can not be avoided, say sorry when you aware that this discussion would leads to a bad ending. it is really a good way.
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@BlueQ123 (29)
• Singapore
3 Nov 09
Nope. When I was teenage and angry at my parents, they seemed not replying to me. So there is no room to quarrel with them. On the other hands, when they were mad on me, they have scolded me. And I was just keeping quiet. Not replying to them as well. So ended up we never really quarrel or shouting to each other in my family. Weird, isn't it? I think back now and feel that it is not really a healthy way to deal with our emotion. Think I grown up in a weird family huh? lol.
@buping (952)
• China
3 Nov 09
hi blueq, i do not think it is a weird way, but a good way to deal with quarrelings. i can not control my emotions. when my parents scolded at me, i could not calm down, i could not keep in quiet, if i did shout at my parents, they also could not keep quiet.haha..
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
27 Oct 09
I raised 4 girls and all of them had their times of talking rude and shouting in anger at me. I have a 15 yr. old and while it is rare, we have our moments also. I have shouted things in anger as well. It happens....we are human. And your mom is very right....a mom will love the child no matter what....nothing at all could ever change that...NOTHING! I am not saying that it is right but it is human and forgivable. What we can do is try to keep our tempers and our tongues in check.
@buping (952)
• China
29 Oct 09
hi sid, you are a great mother with 4 girls, girls tend to be easy to be angry, and some even can not keep her tempers and toungue in a quarrel. i was one of them. but my mom getting old day by day, sometime i feel so sad to see that it was me that made her lost her young. now i can easily control my temper and i would no quarrel with her anymore.
@jugsjugs (12967)
27 Oct 09
Oh yes i used to when i was growing up and every now and again my mother tries to put her nose into my life as well.I have had an arguement with my mum just yesterday as she was on about what am i still doing up at 3am in the morning as well as i am always on the pc and that i need my sleep.I live on the other side of the road to my mother so she knows who comes to my house as well as what time my lights go off.My brother has not worked for years and he lives at home with her he is 40.I have 6 children,i am 38 and married buying my house.She bails him out with money all the time as well as he do not give her any money.I am on the pc alot trying to earn money as i can not go to work,my husband has a full time job.I look after my 6 children as well as the house etc and make cards to sell,pc earning money on as well to provide for our family and keep a roof over our heads.So that is what i told here just yesterday,well shouted.
@buping (952)
• China
29 Oct 09
hi jugs, you live in a big family, with happiness and burden. i can imagine how happy when you with your 6 kids, but life is reality. it is a big burden for you to raise the 6 kids. so i know sometime you would be annoyed about your present life, but remember that you have only one mom, and she maybe the one who love you most in this world.:)
@oit236 (34)
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
yeah...it cannot be avoided but always remember it is wrong act to parents..
@buping (952)
• China
29 Oct 09
hi oit, i would never do the same fault again.:)happy mylotting
• Ukraine
15 Nov 09
hellow, I'm 18. Still living with my parents, we didn't use to talk too much, but now we don't talk at all. They simply both decided to ignore me. I and my mum had a quarrel. There was no serious reason for that. I have been having not very good mood for the last two weeks because i can't go to the university and see friends(quarantine)I'm sitting home, she was also not in a good mood. So,my father is on her side. i don't feel guilty, but it is very hard to live with people, who only feel anger for you. So i tried to make peace with her, but she continues ignoring me. It hurts. I have never had such a situation. Maybe it's because I became older and they feel. But, the older i am, the worse relationship i have with them. I'm very sorry for my English(it's not my native language) If someone could advice me what i should do, i'd be really thankfull!)