are you ready for marriage?

Hi, buping! That is what love can do. Love can change one's point of views in a relationship or marriage any time. Maybe at the time she said that she would not get married in the next two years because you said that yourself. She was single and she's happy for what she has at that time. However, when someone knocks on her door, the feelings might develop naturally and she could feel that the man she's going to tie the knot with is the man who she wants to spend her life with. So, she can plan yes, but she can't control her feelings and unless she is not force to get married, that is really good news. Congrats to her!

Well my daughter is doing pretty much the same thing. She met her fiance about a year ago and she even said she didn't want to settle down. But now in less then 6 months she's going to be married to who she calls the love of her life. I don't approve of it right now myself but this is what makes her happy. I think she will prove me wrong. To see them together they're so happy. Don't judge love by the time. It could just hit...at any time.

Maybe she loves him? Maybe she grew up a lot or had something that changed her mind on her single life to be honest i think a lot of us eventually come to the point where we realised a single life is just not for us and I think finding someone you love can make you change your mind really quickly.

Getting married can never be predicted. Your friend stands two years ago must be based on her status that time (NO Boyfriend) but as the days goes by, she didn't realize that cupid will eye her heart of his arrow. It is really true that if you find your man, everything will be put on place like being prepare to say yes when he propose.

I think alot of people feel like they are going to be left on the shelf and never get married,perhaps that is why your friend is getting married.I think alot of people that get married like you say in 6months tend to think it is a good idea at the time,but lets face it perhaps it seems a good idea now,but then in say a years time she will regret it.Alot of people get married as their friends or relations are getting married only to find out that things do not work out.

well,I guess when you just find the right one, then you'll be ready no matter what. LOL. I think I am really ready to get married.. though I still need to save more money to be able to pay for it. hahaha.

you dont really choose the time you are ready. it just comes to a woman's life that she thinks she has met her other half that she suddently thinks she is ready and would like to settle down. it is the heart that talks. in my case, i did not think i would get married but it just suddenly dawned on me that i would like to get married and i envisioned spending the rest of my life with this special man. looking back on my life, i am now wondering if i had made a mistake or rather if my heart had made a mistake.

See I am ready for marriage but I should see myself that am I able to get all responsbility on my shoulder ,because marriage is not only fun it is very big responsbility and your friend was trying to acheive something thatwhy she set time limit but suddenly she acheived what she wanted so she became ready for wedding after all this is life and it changes in every moment............

Sometimes some people like to live seperately but some do not.The real reason for some people why they don't want to get marry is they didn't meet their right persons. It also took us only half a year my boyfreind became my husband. Maybe now I tell some freinds who I don't contact for long time will be surprised too. In fact,if you met your right person, to get married will be soon.