Whom will you blame if the marriage is not successful?

Well hireshed,as far as i know that marriages are made in heaven.So i think we can't blame any one nither family nor our loved ones.Bucz it is the faith that do it.But once people are married then they have some responsibility towards each other and family.

hi hireshd, i would not blame anyone if my marriage is not successful or it is not the type i dream. i would ask myself if i am right and do everything what i should do well. i think if one's marriage life is not successul, they are both have duty on this, i mean husband and wife. and understanding is so important in a marriage, women should know how to do it.

Of course yourself since you did not follow your own choice but the choice of your family. I think when deciding for who to marry the ultimate decision must still come from yourself. I know you have many consideration when you chose that choice but then you should have taken in consideration the price you would have to pay for choosing that decision of yours. Blaming your family is just a an excuse for yourself not to blame yourself. It is your life and family's influence over you ends when you became adult enough and not following their decision for you is a choice you have to take to be happy in life.

It depends marriage be it a love marriage or not will only work if both parties work at making it work really so there would probably be a little blame to everyone. That said I would never marry anyone I didnt love although that is easy for me to say being in a situation where by i can make the choice to marry the man I love.

Hey I love someone and for my family issue I will have to marry with someone so first now I will pay my responsbility and do every thing what any good husband does. Now if marriage is not gonna work so why Would I blame to my family ? see when husband and wife does not trust on each other then this divorce situation comes.To keep good relation between husband and wife is in hand of them .They should be best friend and try to understand likes and dislikes of each other and discuss daily work and problem It will make them good friend and good partner

For me, there's no one to blame.. certain situations happen for a reason. if you reached your limit, then let go.. if you can still hold on, keep on trying giving a chance. smile :)

If ever I got married and my marriage went wrong, nobody's to be blamed except myself, after all nobody twisted my neck or punched my head to get married it's my own decision so I have no right to point my finger to other people for my own stupidity. If ever my marriage went wrong I will handle it maturely and solved the problem before it will ruin my marriage. I hate separation and divorce so I have to fix everything before the relationship will go down the mud.

Hi,hire,Not only breaking of marriage,for all failures we have to take responsibility ourselves only.No body is responsible for our failures.All failures are self goals only.At any circumstances one should adjust and solve the problem,instead of that if it is ended with failure means this is our failure only. Have a nice day.

There are many story happened like that.If it happen to me,I will blame myself.Because it's a great mistake i should not to make that marry someone you do not love. Marriage is up to myself.Family issue is a only less important reason i should to think of. So when marriage is not going on, i will be responsible for it.