when Doctor says that your wife can't get "Pregnancy" in life time?
By Baluyadav
@Baluyadav (3643)
India
October 27, 2009 3:03pm CST
If she had some health problem to get pregnancy and give birth to child.It is critical period to any family,because you loved her much.what will be your mind status at that time when you heard from doctor?
6 responses
@sylviamak (60)
• Singapore
28 Oct 09
I heard about this kind of situation that break the hearts of couple. It is very hard to accept for the fact.
However, do you believe in miracle? I heard from the experience of my friend who was certified by doctor that she could not conceive. She was so disappointed initially, but she did not give up hope . She read Bible and go to attend church. It was faith that gives her hope and she conceived 3 beautifully children and share her testimonials people to have hope and faith. Things will be better tomorrow. Keep praying. Ask ,you can get what you want. Knock, the door will be opened.
Sylvia Mak
http://wiseparents.net
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
7 Nov 09
Hi,sylvia,whatever the reason,she gave birth to children,that's all for congratulate her.I am an Atheist and i trust science.
Have a good day.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
8 Nov 09
Hi,thank you for your response and congrats for getting the best response mark.All the best and have a nice time.
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
6 Nov 09
for any man who is open minded it would not bother him if he truly love her wife he would understand the current situation. Though, some men becomes mad or become depress with the news and hence one of the reasons men get another lover to fill out his dissatisfaction with his wife.
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@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
Yeah, some men have sterility problems and not all the causes of fail pregnancy could be blame on women some factors also affect the reproductive system of both gender as well.
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
10 Nov 09
Hi,yes,you are true.But male ego don't accept and they throw the blame on woman and this is more in remote areas.Have a nice time.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
7 Nov 09
Hi,Yes,neeli,in many situations,men go for alternative for proving his ego.But unfortunate thing is some times men also cause for not getting pregnancy,in that cases also men blame women.We have to feel ashame of this situation.
Have a nice time.
@3SnuggleBunnies (16374)
• United States
9 Nov 09
I would imagine one would feel disappointed. However, I also would think one would start looking at alternatives like adoption if one desires a family. Or if adoption is not possible acceptance of the diagnosis. And you know what that's ok, it's getting to be more common place to adopt or to just be childless. Some people have the choice to not have kids others do not.
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
10 Nov 09
Hi,3Snuggle,As you said,if there is no misunderstandings ,depressions...in few families due to this reason.When there are alternatives like adoption of orphans ..gives them satisfaction in both ways.Have a nice time.
@jndlponti (2402)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
Hi baluyadav... I am sorry to hear that. That is a sad news really for the whole family. I was once told by the doctor that I should not get pregnant (I could be able to be pregnant but should not) because their are some differences with my ovary and the baby and I would both get in danger.
When my husband learned about it he was sad at first but still told me that it is okay as long as we have each other that is much more better than not at all.
But I still tried to be pregnant, and when the time we all realized that I am already pregnant I have in bed from the start until the day I labored our baby.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
28 Oct 09
Hi,jndl,i experienced both sad and happiness by seeing your response.First i felt bad that what doctor told with your family and later i felt happy that you gave a birth to baby.I appreciate your husband to give such a moral support when needed.Have a happy life with your child.
@lichee_china (506)
• China
28 Oct 09
I don't know.I don't even have a wife,sorry about that,since you loved her much,you two can adopt a baby,bring up he or she with your love.good luck
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
28 Oct 09
Hi,lichee,i hope you will become a good husband to whom so ever you marry.Because you have that qualities,knowing all of us by seeing this response.All the best and have a nice time.
@jndlponti (2402)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
Adaption is a good option. It is not bad at all. It is better to adopt an infant so you could both experience how is it like to be a parent from the very start of that baby's life.
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
28 Oct 09
Hi,yes,brad,when there is no alternative to get pregnancy it is better to adopt a baby that to in infant stage as jndl said.So that a mother can come acrsse all the phases of growing child.Have a nice day.