Do you blame someone when you are mad?

hi flamingor I don't unless that someone caused me to get mad in the first place. I do not take out my anger on innocent' people but I do warn people who are in a happy happy mood that they should leave me the heck alone as I am angry.I am not welcoming company or small talk when I am furious. So please just let me alone. But since stress for me causes anger I am trying not to sweat the small stuff,and as the author of the book says, most stuff is small. So I do not often get angry and when I do it is usually caused by something stupid someone did to me.

try not getting mad when someone blames you for the problems they had when you weren't even around them or had contact with them except by phone. My grandmother (whom i don't associate with or speak to anymore) accused me of being the one to blame for my dad's problems of him being caught out on violation of his probation and that was the reason he went jail. i had nothing to do with the fact that he can't keep his behind at home when he's driving on restricted license and on no insurance, plus having pills that are not prescribed to him when he's caught off magnolia avenue(one of the worst places to go in knoxville) and she wants to blame me because she's having to keep up with him. She's the one wanting him to live with her and then now regrets it and is looking for every one else in the world to blame. I don't blame someone else when I'm mad only when they are reason the hatered is so strong for this person. It really takes me a long time to get mad at someone and usually I dno't stay mad at someone even when I am. i just can't stand someone who wants to blame me for there wrong doing when I was no where around and supposedly the incodent that she is talking about was when my parents refinanced the house to keep me from going to jail, because of a bad decision with a check that came from over the internet. this happened like like 6 years ago and my parents were not divorced nor separated. So, I guess I do blame some one when I get mad, but I usually have a real ligit reason, especially when it comes to dealing with my family.