How often do you socialize with your co - workers after work?

United States
October 27, 2009 8:32pm CST
So, how often do you socialize with your co - workers after work? Like going to the bar; going to a restaurant; or going to bowling etc....... For me, once in while, my co - workers might ask me if I like to go to the restaurant have a nice meal. Usually it is for someone who is birthday. Or you rather go straight home, and having your own private time?
6 responses
@jamzy19 (72)
• United States
28 Oct 09
i always have launch with my co-worker, we will eat together at our office pantry. but going out like going to the bar is really not my type, i would rather be home and play with my kids...:)
• United States
28 Oct 09
I totally understand that. Family person usually rather going home to be with their families. For me, I am a single person, so, I won't mind going out to have some fun with my co - workers too. You know, better socialize rather than cage yourself in home alone.
• United States
29 Oct 09
Yes, better to be out and have fun with friends coz it makes you enjoy life while still young, coz the time will come that you will prefer the be with your family in your free time just like me... well i guess am really a home buddy!
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
eating out - eating out in restaurant during lunch break with co-workers
I very seldom go and socialize with friends after work. If there is a chance that I am with them, it would be because it is an office activity or gathering. If a co-worker celebrates his birthday outside the office, I just normally send my gift and beg off from any invitation. I feel it is too tiring already to be at a certain place after work. I like to have my own time after work and I rather spend it at home with my children. For lunch tendered by birthday celebrators who are co-workers, if these are tendered in the office, no reason why I could not be there. Sometimes, during lunch breaks the whole group of co-workers go out for lunch in a restaurant and come back for work in the afternoon. I go with them on that occasion.
• United States
28 Oct 09
I've only gone out to eat with a few coworkers on one occasion. That was during training. I already knew the one coworker from my previous place of employment. We had the chance to take a long break one day so we took the chance and went out shopping for a few items for our classroom and then we went out to eat. It was a nice change of pace and helped us get to know each other outside the classroom.
@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
28 Oct 09
I have gone out with a few different co-workers to a few different places for a few different reasons over the last 11 years of my employ. We have met in bars for birthday celebrations - we have gone to restaurants for a "girls night out" usually just a few of us. I have socialized with a few at their homes. I have met and become great friends with a few of my former coworkers. I have some friends that I have met through work - and after 12 or even 20 years we are still quite close. So I don't see any harm in socializing with your co-workers- One of them could be your next best friend. Almost all (with the exception of 2) of my very good friends were all met a one job or another. It is the place you spend most of your day away from home. so It is easy to form a bond with someone you see everyday. If you have things in common you can build that relationship up. I do enjoy spending my free time at home. But sometimes it is great to get together with others just for some companionship.
@larish (2234)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
I always have lunch with my co-workers. That is usually my regular bonding with them. At times we also have dinner once in a while especially if someone is celebrating his/her birthday.
• Indonesia
28 Oct 09
Before I moved here, I socialised with my co-workers a lot. We usually go out for meals or snacks after work, or have a funny karaoke times together. Most of my co-worker there are singles, so they have enough time to socialise after work. In this new office, I do not socialise with them. I am new and I do not really know my co-workers here. Besides the work load here is much higher and they have wives or kids who wait for them to come home.