Have you ever been rude here in mylot?

That's good to know. Keep it up!

No I did not see that post by you. I doubt that you can figure out where those negative ratings come from, it would cause a lot of wars on here if people knew who rates negatively. I suspect there are people who get perverse delight in rating people negative. I think I read somewhere that those who mass rate people negative are being tracked and will have consequences by myLot. I have a star rating similar to you, but a few less posts. I can proudly say I have 62 best responses so it shows I am trying to be helpful and informative. The guidlines at myLot says you should rate someone positive even if someone disagrees with you. The positive rating should come if you contributed to the discussion, whether agreeing or not. Unfortunately people are using it to punish people who disagree because their nose is out of joint when they do not receive a chorus of "me too" replies.

congratulations on your 62 best repsonses

were you responding to my reply,how do you know that 5% rated negative,and could i find out which discussion i was rated negativly for

There's a big difference between being rude and fighting for what you believe in. I consider fighting for what you believe in as something that isn't rude, well it may sound like so but I don't think it should be considered rude on the context that you would like to defend your ground. However, there are some who purposely would try to be rude in order to insult or tick of the person discussing or the person responding. They are particularly doing it on purpose. I guess they're so fed up with their lives that they just want to spread the negativity. Anyhow, I have never come across you in a debate on something. Perhaps one of these days I would surely see how passionate you are when you want to stand your ground for something you believe in. I just hope that we won't both be irked the to point of avoiding each other. hahaha.. Have a great MyLot experience ahead! Thanks for sharing!

Oh, it's nice to know that you have tried to keep things clean. I have also tried doing that, however, there are just people here on the Lot who seems to attract negativity and would like to find some heat. I guess regardless what we do to make things clean there will be friction sooner. Anyhow, how have you been? It's been three years and I hope that you're still on the Lot and enjoying yourself. Thanks for the thoughts and have a great MyLot experience ahead!