Do you dream about your First love which happened in your life as u have....
By rorisricha
@rorisricha (732)
India
October 28, 2009 12:48am CST
Now you are married and now and then do you think of that where your first love he/she could have been....and what he/she might be doing? Do you dream about them not anything like lust just about there well being or illness...how do you feel? Is there anything if at all u get a dream of your past love....
4 responses
@andocor (7)
• India
28 Oct 09
Yes I do think about my first love. I was in school and now many many years later I still wonder where he is and what he is doing, whether he is in a happy married life or what? Is he alive and in good health? I also wonder whether what it would be like if we were together!! But life is like this - it gives you only one change to be happy and if one can take the positive from the experience and use it to the fullest in the years to come then only you are giving back to the world something good - otherwise there is always hatred and animosity. It also makes you a kinder human being!
@rorisricha (732)
• India
28 Oct 09
How do you feel if you meet him some day of your life?.....will you remain like friends in life or won't?
@andocor (7)
• India
28 Oct 09
Yes I guess so - it would rather awkward at first but then the rush of all the memories etc would be there and yes I would like to continue being friends if he would want to. Actually it all REALLY depends on the kind of relationship we had and how it ended. So in the first instance I am feeling overwhelmed just by seeing him again after all that has happened in our independent lives and the next instance I will also be a little disturbed by the way I am reacting or feeling if he had hurt me earlier. It all depends on how much control I have on myself and I am definite about not revealing my feelings too much.
@rorisricha (732)
• India
31 Oct 09
ok..ok I understand your feelings and the situations...thank you for responding...
@RedRose86 (27)
• Cyprus
29 Oct 09
well.....yes i have dreamed my first love many times but that doesnt mean anything (or maybe does?). After that you come in to the reality again.lol
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
29 Oct 09
From teenager right up till I'm an adult, I've never dreamed directly of my first love. I don't know why, perhaps I don't wish to dream about past love. I normally dream about futuristic things which always makes me wonder why. But I suppose those are just harmless dreams..
@sheng143 (55)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
Ive been in that way even if im not yet married.. i always dream of someone i love, the one love who never love me back... i always dream that were together... holding each other's hand as we walk.... he is the only man ive ever dream to be with until the last breathe of mine but now he was gone, he had chosen to be with somebody else and that hurts a lot,,, i dont have any choice but to give up and let him go, for him to be happy........then the moment i saw him walking away as he left me behind my tears fell......seems like i couldnt breathe!!! everything were not over i still continue our memories even through in my dreams as i lay down at night!!!but then as i wake up early in the morning there's a single tears fell..............
