Have u ever been betrayed by your lover.can u excuse him for that
By sunnycool
@sunnycool (12714)
India
October 28, 2009 12:54am CST
Trusting your partner is really important and acts like a good foundation for your future.Do u completely trust ur partner r not.what if u come to know to know tat he has betrayed u and confesses abt it after u came to know abt it. wat would u be able to excuse him . wat do u do when u come accross such situation.
3 responses
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
hello there.. yours is a sensitive matter. i think we all have different views about this, and well we all have different experiences that will lead us to different end results. one person will forgive, while others, or me will tend not to forgive. i believe though that once trust is broken, you will definitely lose the one thing that sticks your relationship stronger.... much like love, respect, trust is as important in a relationship.q
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
9 Apr 10
It does really depend on one's attitude but for me i would never accept betrayal---i would expect her to so loyal as me so if she's been offtrack then she would be outta my life too 
.thanks for the response and revisiting this older discussion---i almost forgot about it 
.thanks for the response and revisiting this older discussion---i almost forgot about it 
@gfike01 (26)
• United States
15 Nov 09
I use to excuse my soon to be ex. For about the 7 years we were together, she cheated on me. I stayed because of the kids. Now, she is living with another guy and we are not even divorced yet.
I dont think I could excuse anyone again. But I wont say never because each situation is different.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
23 Dec 09
sorry about your relationship and why dont you move on and look for another girl if you are lucky enough then you might get a good understanding and trustful partner this time and your kids need a mother too.we cant compare each others problems coz each one is different from others and most probably they have a fight over small issues which can be avoided initially.its unfortunate that many try to show their ego and the relationshi ends.good day.
@Drsunny21 (556)
• India
28 Oct 09
I will definitely excuse her,actually i had excuse her many times:-)...Ya he/she breaks ur trust and defintely it hurts but tht thing has done and aftr tht there is no reason to fight or quarrel for tht...So just leave it to him/her tht wht she/he wants to do and just go on her/him decision..
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
23 Dec 09
hi DRsunny,i think you are pretty loyal in your relationship than your girl friend and its good to see you giving chances for her to realize and hope she doesnt hurt you anymore through her behaviour.Thank you for responding and sorry for the laaaate response ya.good day.
