if you offer love to your partner will you give it all?

I think it would be difficult for me to just give 50 percent in a relationship. Maybe that is my problem. When I give, I give all. It doesn't matter if it is love for a friend or love for a partner. And I expect the same back, but of course I never get it. I am the type of person that makes whomever I am with the number one priority in my life. That's why I get so frustrated when they don't take the time to let me know when they aren't going to stop by if they say they will or why I get aggravated whenever they don't return phone calls or stay in contact with me. It is as if they want to do whatever they want to do when they want to, but whenever they want me to be there for them, I am always there.

hello, I am not sure. there are still strong tendencies that i get to be selfish and unreasonable. if i can't Love my own family to the fullest then how can i do that to my own partner, you can both love some one and yourself at the same time. you can sacrifice but not to the point where you loose your own dignity and self-respect. there's no 50%, there's only 100% to yourself and to the one you love. how do i know? because am only giving 50%.

I think it is in my nature to love 100%. Sometimes, it is true that I get hurt and all that. One thing I learned though, is to love unconditionally and not really assume anything in return. Everything happens for a reason. If you end up with a certain person, there is a reason for this.Loving someone really depends on a person. Some can recover quickly no matter how much he/she loved that person.

For me, I won't give whole. I will leave something for myself, able to give love to the person I loved. It is in yourself the love begins. We should still leave love for ourselves and the other half to the one we truly love.

Your right,i its good to do this tht give 50% love to ur partner and 50% for urself.But i had a gf and i had given not 100 but 200% love to her,i had treated like queen but she had broken my trust many times and i had forgiven her each and evry time.And today is like tht i still talk to her but jst as a friend and whenever she needs me i helped her.Ya it hurts it is ok..This is love....:-)

I do not quite agree with you.We should give most of our love to parter.If you love your parter,you should care about each aspects of him or her.Love is not the same as bussiniss,we should carefully to operate it.Two people together is not evitable to quarrel,it is a common thing.