Can you accept the artificial beauty?
By sasalove
@sasalove (1709)
China
October 28, 2009 3:38am CST
Being a girl, I love the beauty no matter it is natural or artificial as I can enjoy it. Some people said that the appearance is born of God that it should not change by human beings.
There are a lot of cosmetic surgery around my female friends, saying they want their nose to be higher, or they want their eyes to be bigger. For me, I will not do such kind of cosmetic surgery to make me beauty as I am worried about the side-effect afterwards.
How about you? Can you accept the artificial beauty? Do you mind if your partner did such cosmetic surgery for beauty. Share your comment.
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11 responses
@noguilt93 (52)
• India
28 Oct 09
I can accept artificial beauty yes. Some people have flaws and imperfections that they do not like about themselves. This leads to severe inferiority complexes and depression. So who are we to judge these people if they want to fix these flaws so that they can live with themselves? To look into a mirror and think "I'm ugly" is probably the worst feeling anyone can go through and nobody deserves that. If my partner did go through plastic surgery i would support her decision 100% and my opinion of her being beautiful would not change.
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@sasalove (1709)
• China
29 Oct 09
Thanks for your point. I think if the flaws and imperfections did not scare the audience, I don't suggest the surgery there as we can not guarantee it is 100% percetage safe for the cosmetic surgery. Just like Michael Jackson, I like his black skin more than white. I just can not figure out why he would like to change the face complexion.
Have a nice day.
@noguilt93 (52)
• India
29 Oct 09
Well, in the end it isn't whether other people will accept u. You need to be able to accept yourself, live with yourself and love yourself. So if plastic surgery facilitates this, go ahead.
@mohitseth (568)
• India
29 Oct 09
i think different people have different perception about this thing.according to me beauty does not lie in face or body it lies in overall personality.if you are beautiful it does not mean that you will be liked by all the people.one should be good at heart to impress others.as we know impression is not created by looks but by thoughts.so if u have nice mind and behavior then you will be liked by people.
happy mylotting.
@OrangJuice (687)
• China
29 Oct 09
Sasa, I think I'm similar with you! But to accept or not, I'm not sure.
You know, for those whose looks or shapes are really not good, I think cosmetic surgery may be better for them. Coz sometimes they are treated unfairly indeed.
Also there is someone who are disfigured by accidents. Cosmetic surgery is necessary for them.
But for those whose looks are acceptable, it's their rights to do cosmetic surgery. But for me, I won't. I think the most important is in one's brain. Coz as time goes by, beauty will fade, but the things in the brain won't.
And as you said, the side-effect is also a problem, it's not necessary for me to take a risk to do it, as I think my looks is acceptable.
Anyway, thanks for your discussion!
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@sasalove (1709)
• China
29 Oct 09
Thanks for your response.
It should be a must for those who are disfigured by sccidents or born with disfiguration if they have enough economic support for the operation. As it will directly affect their daily life. I don't blame on that and even hope that society or government have such charity money for those people.
You are absolutely right that beauty will fade along with the age. I really did not care too much about the face while selecting a partner for my future life. Face can easily change by cosmetic surgery, but the personality not.
Have a nice day.
@checkmail (2039)
• India
28 Oct 09
Hello sasalove this is checkmail and often do feel sorry for the peoples who are not able to access our natural beauty and its resources.Well in todays world both natural as well as artificial beauty are admired in a similar way.But the durability or lasting always gives advantage to natural beauty.Artificial beauty is for some short time with some scientific methods.Yes in todays world can accept artificial beauty but prefe to follow the natural beauty.Well if natual ways are around than there won't be need for an artificial one.
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@sasalove (1709)
• China
29 Oct 09
Yes, it is correct that both natural and artificial beauty are admired in a similar way. By the advance techology, we can not distinguish it from the natural one sometimes. But no matter how advance of the tech, it is true that artificial beauty can only last for a short time. The side effect will occur afterwards.
Thanks for your reponse and have a nice day.
@iceydon (342)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
I can accept artificial beauty as long as it is not over done.I wont mind if my partner did cosmetic surgery for enhancement of beauty. The person's character would be the same.Her confidence could change things for the better. Surgery are so common for young and old ladies including men and gays. Its a trend now that everything could be arrange for enhancement of beauty with surgeon's scalpel. Its morality base on each belief could be questioned but the urge to be pretty had seemed put morality at halt.
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@irene3184 (898)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
I Prefer Natural Beauty Over Artificial Beauty. I think natural beauty wins hands down over artificial beauty every time. Your beauty comes from inside anyway. You can't cover that up. Why put layers of make-up on to what cover a blemish, a wrinkle, a freckle. When the make-up comes off the blemish, wrinkle, freckle are still there. Why not go natural be beautiful the way God made you. Be proud of the way you look. Be natural. Be beautiful!
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@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
28 Oct 09
To each her or his own. What gets me is when hubby tries to tell me,that a woman's boobs are real.I don't even wear makeup much less a face lift,or artificial chemicals being injected in me for beauty.My partner is not so vain, that he would even consider anything such as this nor would I.
@Bluepatch (2476)
• Trinidad And Tobago
28 Oct 09
There's nothing wrong with liking beauty. I'm a guy and I love it too. Altering your features is not something I would easily do, through, you can have really bad after effects. If the surgery is not done properly then you can actually become a horror. Its best to leave yourself like you are but there's nothing wrong with loving beauty.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
my wife has no artificial in her body. i guess we dont need any of that. if you re an actress or actor maybe you need that for people look to you as being a perfect face and body. for me personality is still important. its the trait that is important. no matter how good a person looks after this cosmetic surgery but that person is rude then that pretty or good looking face does not give any justice
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@sasalove (1709)
• China
29 Oct 09
Yes, I agree. I knew that men always can not accept their wife to be artificial for any part of the body. If the lady is not his wife, he doesn't matter for that. Sometimes I think the super star pays a lot in such area at the cost of their youth. The people will become older if she ever did the cosmetic surgery.
Thanks for your comment and have a nice day.
@mielshare (265)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
I don't see anything wrong with artificial beauty as long as that person did not hurt anybody for doing such thing and as long he/she is happy with who she/he is..