What will you do?
By athomice
@athomice (396)
Philippines
October 28, 2009 3:42am CST
What will you do if your discussion is deleted? And in a span of days another one or more of your discussions are deleted including the old ones? What will you do? Well, it happened to me just recently "My First Payment" post had been deleted. When I tried to discuss my sentiment about it on "What Happened To My Post?" the next day it was deleted again! And I found out that my first post "Need Opinions" had been deleted too. And if this discussion will be deleted it would be my last started discussion. I felt like myLot hate me so much that they keep deleting my post. I know they have a reason and I may be violated the guidelines but what if I want to discuss another sentiment or topic and I need opinions from different types of people here in mylot, I will be hesistant to do it because they might delete it again.
This post is another sentiment and I'm afraid it will be deleted again. I really hate feeling rejected becuase all my life I've been living in that world.
Thank you for reading and God Bless you all!
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6 responses
@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
29 Oct 09
Recently the work here has improved greatly. That's why discussions unacceptable get deleted soon. Maybe 'other discussions' you saw were old ones.. I am sorry I couldn't read your second discussion. It sure would have been just an expression of your sadness! But you see, they don't take it lightly if one appears to accuse them of using underhand meanings. So better to word your sentences carefully.
Now be cheerful, shake off the sad feelings. Find some good discussions to reply, and when you are ready start a new one
P.S. : In my initial days, my posts were deleted because I was so strict in using punctuations! Made me startled..
@hora_fugit (5862)
• India
30 Oct 09
I'm happy to help you Actually i went through previous responses before creating my own, so could see you know well the situation and that it's just the impact of deletion..
Happy mylotting :) Keep up
@athomice (396)
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
Hello there hora. That's a nice word you said, its uplifting. It's good to know that someone in mylot deals with this kind of sadness before and because them people like me a new one are enlightened. I keep seeing same response about guidelines but thses don't help, all I need is comfort and understanding of what I'm dealing now. And because of people who are willing to uplift your spirit and encourage you to do more, your sad heart will eventually accept the fact that there are certain rules and guidelines that we need follow. And because of people like you, my sad heart is starting to smile again.
Thank you very much!
God Bless!
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@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
well if you dont like to get deleted then you have to read the facts and the guidelines or the rules so your discussion wont get deleted. some members does not just get their discussion deleted but their account deleted as well. you need to follow rules just like most of the members here do. its not that mylot hates you, but you are not following rules thats why it gets deleted. everyone is welcome here but you need to follow the rues. goodluck athomice
@athomice (396)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
Thanks. It's important for me to follow the rules and regulations I've been trying to do that and I know mylot doesn't hate me but they just think that my post violated the guidelines. Maybe my sentiments are just the outcome of my personality who's willing to follow the rules and regulation.
Thanks again!
God Bless!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Oct 09
athomice well if I were you I would check to see what rule of mylot's you broke as only they can delete discussions so you did break a rule.for one thing one rules states no discussions about my first payment or my first anything,read the darned rules so you know before hand what the rules are, what happened to my post broke another rule, no discussions about what mylot does or does not do with us, it is in the rules why cannot you new people read the damned rules? They do not hate you but they dislike anyone breaking the rules,it is up to you to read the rules, it is so simple, I have never had anything deleted because I do keep tab of the rules and any changes in them.
@rucrazy4 (783)
• India
28 Oct 09
These post are deleted because my lot give guideline to post any topic while you violate terms then mylot delete your post. My lot specifies on guideline that
" Start discussions promoting a milestone, such as birthdays, anniversaries, reaching a certain myLot rating, etc. This is best celebrated via private messaging with your myLot friends."
And such post which is today asked , so please dont paste these like post, i give reply for this post so my reply also deleted.
@athomice (396)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
Someone give me that advice on my "what happened to my post". I know I made a mistake in "my first payment' post but the I've seen same kind of post that was not deleted so I was shock when they deleted mine. Anyway It's ok if I made a mistake on that post but my "what happened to my post" discussion is just a sentiment of a person who is confused and shocked that his post is deleted. And if posting your sentiment or different kind of events of your life will promte milestone...then my post violated the guidelines. With all my heart I will accept that it was deleted.
Anyway thanks for the respond. Respondents like you really helps ease the trouble minds.
God Bless!
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
29 Oct 09
Read the guidelines very well. It clearly says in the dicussion guidelines not to 'Start discussions promoting a milestone, such as birthdays, anniversaries, reaching a certain myLot rating, etc. This is best celebrated via private messaging with your myLot friends.' That is why your "my first payment" discussion was deleted. I do not know why the other discussions were deleted but they must have violated their rules in some way. Do not violate their rules and you will do just fine.
Mylot does not hate you, it just does not like your discussions.
@Wordlinx (506)
• India
29 Oct 09
If my discussion is deleted, I will again go through the terms of service of mylot and try to understand that mistake that I committed. Unfortunately, my first discussion it self got deleted and the discussion itself was about the deletion of discussions and their effect in their earnings..Within an hour, the discussion was unavailable. Then I came to know that the earnings procedure here should not be discussed in detail and now I am avoiding that type of discussion..Even now, I am not sure, this discussion will remain here or not..