please help me up?????
By sheng143
@sheng143 (55)
Philippines
October 28, 2009 4:37am CST
When my boyfriend broke up with me.... i used to find another man but not to love that was my first entension... i have 4 boyfriend now and one of them have a girlfriend and he is the one i attracted the most. i am his third party??? but i think im starting to be develop on him what should i do??? do i have to stop this because he have a girlfriend??? or not because he is the one i want.... when i was broken he fixed me... im happy everytime im with him.. there's a moment when i saw him with his real girlfriend im affected but i cant do anything because im just his third party!!! do i have to be over in this relationship or not???
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3 responses
@smnor007 (60)
• Malaysia
28 Oct 09
i think u have to go on with your life. In "love" u cant just love HIM only.. He must love u too. If He loves u then He should take u and leave the original GF. Girl dont hurt your self. I know its not easy to forget Him because as u said He is "the one". But love yourself before anyone else. its hurt but the pain is just temporary. it will gone in a moment of times.
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@rhan04 (307)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
In my opinion, I think that's what you call karma. You have 4 boyfriends and out of all of them, you just have to be attracted to the one who is already committed. Fate can really play with us sometimes. But if I were you, I'll try to fix whatever boyfriend issue I have first. If the one you are attracted to really loves you, then he will do his best to be with you and with you "alone". If he doesn't, then you might as well stop that craziness...having four boyfriends is not really healthy at all.
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@sheng143 (55)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
yah, i guess that would be better... but i just wanna play with them like what had someone did to me!!!i think boys were a good player but im the best one.... jejeje just one of my jokes!!!!i dont mean that i already love him!!! je's just the one i attracted the most!!! but like what you said i have to stop this craziness!!!
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
2 Nov 09
I agree with Rhan I think you need to stop seeing 4 boyfriends at one time. I think if this other one really loves you he will quit his other girlfriend and be with you.But I would grow up before I did anything else. Good luck and have a great day!
@free_man (7330)
• United States
2 Nov 09
Did he have this girlfriend before he met you? If so it would say to me he is out looking for what he can get for free. Sorry but my mother always told the us as we were growing up no man will buy the cow when he can get the milk for free. In other words if you give him what he wants and he already has a girlfriend that won't give him what he wants he will use you but keep her. A woman that don't give up everything when she is with a man that is the type of woman they marry. Sorry but best for you to find someone that isn't attached. There is lots of guys out there looking for that special one. Keep looking. Have a great day!
