Are you a loner type of person?
By mrssator2002
@mrssator2002 (281)
Philippines
October 28, 2009 5:21am CST
I don't say that I'm a loner most of the time. There are times of my life when I have no one to hangout with.....but myself. But being alone doesn't mean I'm lonely. I'm just enjoying doing my own thing alone at that moment. Many times I enjoy just being with myself. Are you a loner type also? or always on crowd?
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10 responses
@LdeL0318 (6400)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
I must admit I am a loner. I usually loves to be alone. I don't like to mingle with other people. I hate it when there are a lot of people around. I can always go out alone, do shopping, eat at the restaurant without anyone with me.
@mrssator2002 (281)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
Everytime I go shopping I always want it to be alone so that I can choose well all by myself.
@LdeL0318 (6400)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
And to add up on that, no one will make you hurry. I hate also to make other people wait so I'd rather do it alone.
@mrssator2002 (281)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
Absolutely right! I don't want to bother any people to wait.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
28 Oct 09
Hi dear!
I prefer to mingle with others and I love interacting with others. I just cannot sit lonely. However, when no one is available or around, I keep myself busy in various activities such as ‘writing’, reading and mylotting. I think being lonely does not do any good to us, we are social animals, therefore, if conditions are conducive and favorable, we should get in touch with others.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
31 Jan 10
I love to go out with my friends. I like to visit new places, to eat out or drink coffee in town. I love to talk and to do spend time with others. But I also need to spend some time on my own every day. I never get bored when I am alone, because I like to paint, draw, write, read, surf the internet etc. When I was younger I think that I was more of a loner than I am today. I was very shy when I was a teenager, and I spent a lot of time in my home. Today I am more outgoing and I enjoy spending time with others.
@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
23 Nov 09
not really.I do have a balance between being a loner and being a social butterfly.I love doing things with friends.I love watching movies with my siblings.I love eating out with people and have a good time.I also love doing things solo.I love shopping on my own.I love taking walks by myself.time with friends is important to me.so is my "me" time.
@Graceekwenx (3160)
• Philippines
28 Oct 09
hello... there are many times that i am at peace when i am alone. I love to be a loner when i am in our farm and just look at sunrises and sunsets and just loving the beauty around me. I guess that makes me a loner type of person. I like being alone... I embrace being alone.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
1 Apr 10
Well am sometimes feels lonely and enjoy being loner. When my wife is away for her work and when i am away from my family, i would feel real lonely. But i spend some of those times, doing something lonely and a different transiquition from my normal life.
@tcup345 (358)
• United States
30 Oct 09
I was an only child, so I'm, by nature, a loner. I enjoy being with my friends and family but I'm just as happy alone. If I don't get enough "alone time" I get uptight, this has been especially hard since my husband retired, he's home all the time. Thankfully, he goes down to the club now and then to give me my space.
@xannebull (1793)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
sometimes i want to be alone especially now that i have my own family, i want more time for myself. i enjoyed staying in the house just by myself listening to music and doing computer works. but when i was still single, i don't want to be alone, i can say that i am too independent with my friends, i don't go out without my friends with me...
@Susaneer (3)
• China
28 Oct 09
Hello,mrssator,
When talking about being alone or lonely,I have to say that recently I 'm alone most of the time,but felt lonely sometimes at night.It's a little weird,right?
'cause my best friend got a boyfriend, and had no time to hand out with me.Beside,life's filled with many work at day time,so,after finishing all,a kind of emptiness came out.
wish u good.
@unique16 (1531)
• United States
9 Nov 09
Hi Mrssator2002,
Yes, there are times when I like being alone. If I had a busy day at work I want alone time to decompress. When there is a fight or disagreement I need a lone time to thinks and sort out my thoughts.
I do like to be with friends and haning out or going for walks to have dinner with.
I think like once a day for hour if I can get that by myself I am happier person.
There are times I want to read my book or listen to my type of music when children are not around or eat what I want too when children do like the same foods as me.
I do miss adult conversations too.
Thanks and have a great day
Unique16