What don't you like about yourself?
By laydee
@laydee (12798)
Philippines
October 28, 2009 9:08am CST
I don't like my somewhat quick to jump to conclusions and to blurt out words that I regret after.
I try to control it, but sometimes I just can't control and in turn, I am humiliated with what I say and for being assuming too much.
What about you?
What are you doing to 'change'?
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11 responses
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
28 Oct 09
Hello laydee. I think that I am too hesitated when it comes to making some decisions. This is the very part of me that I don't like myself. I wish to be more decisive when there is something I have to make up my mind for.
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@Aingealicia (1905)
• United States
29 Oct 09
I would say it is my mouth at times. I curse like a sailor and say what I want with out thinking. I am working on learning how to hold my toungue in many cases. Also that I don't get enough done with the time I have.
Ainge
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@mylo2008 (55)
• United States
29 Oct 09
Life is an adventure. We experience things that we like and dislike. What we dislike about ourself we try to change it. Sometimes it will show its face but what matters the most is that we should acknowledge it and try our best to continually work on it to change it.
I'm learning that it's okay to say no sometimes.
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@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
28 Oct 09
Hello laydee! One of the habits or behavior I don't like about myself is being too shy to people I just met. I got too quiet and eventhough I tried to fight it, I can't really help it.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Oct 09
hi meet another shy person, I get quiet and my voice goes too soft so I am embarrassed as people ask me to repeat.we need
help.
@redstar004 (32)
• Saudi Arabia
30 Oct 09
hi,ladyee!
I am soo curious about your confusion for i have experienced such occationas like you !now i am not as bad as before !here is my advice!
before you speak things out ,you must filter what you are gonna say with your intelegent brain,that means,to pause for a while!
sometime being mocked or humiliated is not what you expect even your purpose is good ! but some situations are not what we can expect!so be careful before you speak it out,some bad men may be use your words to amuse your or attact you !
have some skills with wisdom when you speak it out !
it is good for you to deal with relationship with others when you hold your temper and your mouth a little bit !
i did it ,i believe you can make it !
come on !
@alwayzzcitra (1861)
• Indonesia
28 Oct 09
I am a very impatient person. I'm also one of the most stubborn persons you've ever met. When I am in a bad mood then everything has to be done my way. It's annoying to be that kind of selfish person. I really wish to change it and it's hard!
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
Hi there! I could truly relate because I am also a very impatient person. I hate that I am impatient yet there are a lot of things in life that forces me to be patient! hahaha..
I too would like to change but it's just difficult not to give in when I feel irritated at the slowness of some people!
Thanks for the response! I truly hope we could change our ways for the good! By the way, what do you do to change?
Have a great mylot experience ahead!
@Juli_angel (1063)
• Israel
28 Oct 09
even though I love most things about me, I don't like it when I do things without thinking- and I'm a person that thinks a lot. a lot of times I really regret doing things in the heat of the moment.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Oct 09
hi laydee while I can mylot here like crazy when I have to try to make new friends face to face I get shy then my voice gets too soft, and people have to ask me to repeat, and that makes me so mad at myself. I can make friends, but it is never really easy for me. I just wish I could just talk like I would like to without this horrid shyness gripping me all the time. I am trying to be more outgoing but it is so hard.
@smooch091784 (973)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
I think for most people there's nothing that they don't like about themselves. In terms of physical, emotional and spiritual. I'm pretty I've got few of each. But as far as I'm concern and knowing myself, I don't like myself being too much of a worrier, impatient, and being perfectionist. I don't like it too if things didn't go the way I want it. I easily get pissed if that happens. But having these all in me, I try to understand and be more patient not only for myself and but for people around me. However, there are times I just can't help not to get all feeling bad if things didn't get my way. Oh well, I guess that how life should be and it is..
@haiershen (1080)
• China
29 Oct 09
i don't like myself as i do not have myself's opinions,especially on buy clothes,i don't know which one is suit for me, when i need to buy a pair of pants,i have no idea about which jack can be march it.which colour is nice on me,it is very hard for me to make a decision,so i always bring my frineds together with me if i need to buy things,i hate myself on this,if no good decision i would be give up to buy anything.i'm lazy too,no one is lazies than me, if there is a chair and a bed behind me,no doubt i will not to choose the chair,if there is a chair here, i will not choose to stand. lol,that's me,a lazy woman,it is very hard to changed as this habit has already issued more than twenty years.good luck and have a nice day!
@doormouse (4599)
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28 Oct 09
the only thing i don't like about myself is my stammer,but there's nothing i can do to change that