Will a seaman make a good husband?

I was once a seaman of sorts, well I was in my country's Naval Reserve. I have a lot of stories to tell about my days at sea! But I think it depends; there are all sorts of seamen. I think this is a bit of a myth and a legend that seamen are this way. Many professions have myths attached to them, but they are not necessarily so. Seamen are like every other type of person, there are many varieties.

I really do not think that people should be allowed to make such screaming generalisations about people. I do not believe that every seaman has a woman in every port or are unfaithful. My dad was a seaman and although my parents are now divorced it was not because of either one of them cheating on each other. I would not listen to idle gossip and tittle tattle about someone. If you love someone and know you can trust them, why not marry them? If you are sure that you are going to be with someone forever then marry them and don't listen to extreme generalisations.

Hi, santos_mlirs. Only is he is faithful and is able to treat his wife right, will he make a good husband. A man from any profession can cheat on his wife so it does not matter whether or not he is a seaman or not.

being a seaman is just a nature of their job, and i don't think being a womanizer will go with it. my husband is a seaman. i've known him for like 6 years before we decided to get married. i was filled with apprehension at first because that's what i heard,they have girls in every country they dock. but my marriage prove it wrong. my husband have waited for me all those years,he pursue me and never give up on me,until we got married. i think anybody can do womanizing even if he is not a seaman, it is his conviction and the measure of his love for the family that makes the difference. before, i am affected when i heard those humiliating stories about them, but now that i have a seaman husband, i don't easily believe on those, not unless i have an evidence that he's doing it. it is just sad because amidst their sacrifices to give the family a comfortable life, that "womanizer" title would go with their work. it is really unfair for those seaman who have stayed faithful for their wife.

It is not right to judge anybody because of his job. The faithfulness and sincerity of the person can never be measured by the nature of his job. It is all depends on the individual. Well actually it is you who can really answer that question. You certainly know the real man in him.