optimistic of pessimistic?

Hi there mielshare. I noticed that you are somewhat new here at myLot, so let me take this opportunity to send out a great big "WELCOME" to you. It is great that you have managed to turn your life around. It is always great to be as positive as possible. Although, sometimes it can be quite challenging. I have gone through a number of challenging times in my life as well. And there were times when I just wanted to let the negative take over. But, I know that I have to stand strong. And it is just as you have described. When you believe that good things will happen, they will. And the same with the bad. That is why it is best to believe that good things will happen. If you can picture them happening to you, it will be even better.

..sometimes in my life, I have been pessimistic too.. I'm worrying of things that could happen.. However, through the words of God, I was able to transform into being optimistic.. I know and I believe that everything happens for a purpose and sometimes, we will just discover that purpose after we have already overcome and win the situation.. Life is hard but I try to make it easy by looking at the brighter side of every situation that I encounter.. This is the reality of life.. Never pure happiness.. of course, sometimes, we have to cry to experience crying and develop trust in God and confidence to try and go on with life.. Sometimes, we have to experience pain so that we could understand other people's suffering.. Sometimes even, we have to loss the most loved person in our lives just so that we can really understand what love is.. This is why it is indeed important to be optimistic always so that we will not fall considering the situations and challenges that we will encounter in life..