How to have a healthy relationship?
By ronz_27
@ronz_27 (123)
Philippines
October 29, 2009 2:51am CST
A healthy relationship maintains a balance between mental, physical ans spiritual aspects of life. When to much time is spent in one area, the relationship takes on unhealthy characteristics.
If kissing, touching, etc. is dominating your time together, the relationship is at risk. A relationship can't survive on physical involvement.
If you're spending too much time in the department, then you can bet that the mental/social aspect of your relationship is lacking.
Often not enough attention is given to this aspect of the relationship. But God calls us to hold each other accountable and encourage each other to love and serve him.
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8 responses
@werdan88 (272)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
I believe that a key to a relationship is understanding and trust. We must keep into mind that our life does not revolve mainly on each other. People in relationships should not be deopendent on each other either. they must not be limited to each iother. Rather they should continue to have time withf riends and other people. They must also ntrust each other and learn to give in and underatnd. It is a give and take relationship. however, it does not mean that they should give equally. it may unbalanced so long as they understand each other. :)
@Archie0 (5652)
•
30 Oct 09
Someone who you can count on, who isn't going to drop you on a rough day for some time with his buddies. Women want to know that they are thought of, cared about, adored. The sweetest gesture from a guy is a kiss on the forehead, not a qhick peck to the forehead but a kiss. Be open and honest about how your feeling. I love that. Guys who come back for just one more kiss good night or one more I love you sweet dreams.
All in all women just want to know that they cross their mans mind throughout the day, and that they are happy right where they are.
@wangziwei1116 (21)
• China
30 Oct 09
For me sometimes ,it is difficult to have a good relationship with others . I even don't know how to express myself. because everyone don't want to listen to the turth and this makes my so confusd .For example if I say to a girl you looks fat ,then she will be angry .however she is fat , so my relationship is alwawys at danger, but I don't want to chang it ,because I have my life style ,I don't want to live being influnced by others
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
29 Oct 09
to have a healthy relationship, the most important thing to me is maintaining the trust between the one party with other party. With maintaining the trust is automatically one another in a relationship any respectful attitude of respect
@bluray (408)
• Singapore
29 Oct 09
Healthy relation ship requires mental ,emotional as well as physical strength.If any of these is missing the relationship cannot be called healthy and bound to fail.only physical involvement is very risky.if physical beauty gets faded the relation may easily be ruined.so its important that mental and emotional bonding should be strong too.moreover we should provide some space to our partner.Its very important as it signifies mutual trust and understanding.
@khalidkhan787 (1)
• Pakistan
30 Oct 09
Full Trust and understanding each other is, in my opinion, key to a healthy relationship, no matter how hard or tough time you are having. And, in both of these two, i.e. Trust and Understanding, the later is the key to the former. Yes, Understanding between the two is the key which leads to a full scale trust, and therefore lays the foundation of a wonderful realationship. Try it..
@skbh12 (2946)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
hi ronz_27!
for me having a healthy relationship is treating each other with respect and showing each other the love and joy that each much have. contentment is also important. trust is number one important this inside a relationship and i myself is guilty of this. sigh. hope that i get over these situation. i know i can trust my man but what i can trust about is the people surrounding my man. since you know nowadays people are just so liberated that they even choose the once who are already in a relationship or those who already have a family. and that sucks..
@charmz1005 (679)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
Yup, I believe that a boyfriend and girlfriend relationships should limit things to each other. Like they shouldn't be always together, each has their own likes and businesses, and I believe that a healthy relationship is not measured to how often your together, but to how you understand and enjoy each others company even though they seldom see.
