which factor contribute more in successful relationship?
By mohitseth
@mohitseth (568)
India
October 29, 2009 3:12am CST
trust,truth,commitment,loyal,helping,understanding:these are the qualities that we see in our partner.everyone wants his or her partner to be understanding and loyal.they should speak true words with each other.one should trust other.what you see in your partner.what is the most good thing about him or her?thanks for your comments.happy mylotting.
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17 responses
@rockydam83 (846)
• Italy
3 Nov 09
Only trust and loyalty is key of successful relationship. No matter what people will tell you about your partner, you only need to be trustful for him and be loyal always. This should be produced from both sides.
@mohitseth (568)
• India
5 Nov 09
ya trust is biggest factor for relationship but if you both do not have sufficient communication then what.my gf have always have phone switched off.she does not care for emotions and she always says that i am hurt.i am loyal and i trust her.but still i am not happy with her.what to do??
@bluangel628 (383)
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
As for my relationship, the most contributing factor is open communication. We had always make it a point that we know what the other is thinking, how he feels on what I've said and if I'd hurt him. All factors follows in an open communication, trust that both says the truth, commitment on being open in whatever he or she thinks, understanding why he'd feel that way or the reason for such reaction, and making it known that the feeling had never changed.
@mohitseth (568)
• India
31 Oct 09
ya open communication helps a lot in relation and one should be committed with the partner.trust and truth helps a lot.happy mylotting and takcare my friend.
@katisaurus (1038)
• Canada
30 Oct 09
They all contribute a LOT. I think every one of those factors including communication are what help a relationship grow and stay strong.
The one thing I love the most about my boyfriend is that he has a head on his shoulders. He's loyal and honest with me. He has never lied to me about things that affect our relationship, or would affect our relationship.. and he always wants to talk about things with me. If there's a problem he immediately wants to discuss it. He's great. Wouldn't change a thing.
@mohitseth (568)
• India
31 Oct 09
oh thats very good of your boyfriend.communication tells that we care for each other.sometimes a simple sms make our relation strong.one should remain as it is in relation and changes should be positive.happy mylotting and takecare
@mizcash (685)
• Canada
30 Oct 09
I got married at 18 and have been married for 20 years and what I definitely know is that compromise is the key. Next, you should listen and actually understand the other person. Without these things a relationship is likely to break down.
@mohitseth (568)
• India
31 Oct 09
i am very happy for your 20 years of married life.ya compromise is required from both sides.understanding plays a important role in successful relation.hope your married life complete 50 years.happy mylotting my friend.
@paleorainy (630)
• Italy
30 Oct 09
I'd say communication and respect, mutual of course. Really that's what I've learnt from my relationships, problem is you don't always realize everything. Sometimes there's a communication problem but you don't know about it until you're smashed in the head with a breakup...I think a successful relationship is day-to-day neverending committment.
@mohitseth (568)
• India
31 Oct 09
ya commitment is neccessary in relation.one should talk a lot with partner about there problems and we should speak truth with each other.thanks for your reply happy mylotting my friend.
@mohitseth (568)
• India
31 Oct 09
ya love is neccessary to bind us together and laughter help us to overcome hardship in life.thanks for reply and happy mylotting.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
29 Oct 09
In order for a relationship to be successful and able to sustain any hardships and last for decades etc I think the key things are (in no specific order)
compatibility obvious
honesty
compromise
understanding
open communication
equality
thats just a few things....and those are some of the things that have kept my relationship and marriage to my husband strong over the past 11 yrs..
@mohitseth (568)
• India
31 Oct 09
first of all congratulations for your such a long relation.ya we should be ready to compromise with our partner.equality plays a important role as we can share work with each other.open communication is also needed for success in relation.thanks for reply and happy mylotting.
@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
all that you mentioned really helps to have a successful relationship. my husband has a lot of qualities that i like. being trustworthy, honest, lovable, faithful and so sweet that sometimes i thought he's sweet because he did something wrong.lol. and a lot more qualities that makes our love stronger day by day!
happy mylotting!
@mohitseth (568)
• India
30 Oct 09
i am happy for your successful relation.i hope your sweet husband loves you unconditonally my friend.best of luck for future.happy mylotting.
@lealuvy2j (1986)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
Love, trust and good communication are the three factors in my opinion that really contributes in a successful relationship. The usual reason of a failed marriage is when their trust with each other is broken so I really do think that when it comes to the affairs of the heart, trust is really important.
@mohitseth (568)
• India
30 Oct 09
ya trust and truth are bigger players in successful relationship.sometimes due to circumstanses and situation we cannot talk to each other as we have busy times so partner should understand the situation have trust in each other.thanks my friend happy mylotting.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
you can add acceptance in the list. Its a fact that no body is perfect, the more you accept the strengths and weaknesses (especially) of your partner the stronger the relationship is. a relationship will fail if we can't accept the person for who he is. Cheers!
@mohitseth (568)
• India
30 Oct 09
thanks my friend acceptance is a important factor in relation and we should accept each other as it is and we should not accept changes in our partner.we should also try to help each other to overcome our weaknesses and fears.happy mylotting my friend.
@getbrowser (1708)
• China
29 Oct 09
Although the answers of most people may be loyal when it comes to such a question, my answer is understanding.
People can keep in touch with their friends all the time, and they can communicate with each other everyday. When one are getting into trouble, his/her friend give them a hand; They can share happinesee and sorrows. However, in my opinion, no matter what the relationship becomes, they should learn to underatand others for they may have some understandings sooner or later and they have to learn to face it if they want to continue the relationship.
Without understanding, people can't keep the good relationship all the time.
@mohitseth (568)
• India
31 Oct 09
ya understanding and compatability is must in sucessful relation.we should share every thing with our partner and we should speak truth with each other no matter how big it is.thanks for your response and happy mylotting.
@bluray (408)
• Singapore
29 Oct 09
mutual understanding ,trust and unconditional love is important in any healthy relation.I think we have trust on each other.we give space to each other.we respect each others views and refrain from hurting others feelings knowingly.we try to encourage each other and try to be together in good and bad times.
@mohitseth (568)
• India
30 Oct 09
bluray i am impressed by your comments.unconditonal love is important because life is all about giving.space is also needed in successful relation.we should not hurt each other feelings and respect each other views and being together in all times is the real point for true love.god bless you friend.happy mylotting and goodnight.
@rahshel07 (4)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
for me the number one key to a good relationship is trust. you must trust your partner for him/her to feel that really love him/her.and to gain trust, both must have a communication wether its a long relationship or not. if there is a problem, find way to communicate as soon as possible to talk.
@mohitseth (568)
• India
31 Oct 09
ya trust is the base for a successful relationship.if you are int true love then we should give space to our partner and sometimes due to busy schedule we cannot talk to each other and communication is not possible in these circumstances we should trust each other and have belive in partner and in relation there is no room for suspiction.thanks for reply and happy mylotting.
@MJAL08 (275)
•
29 Oct 09
trust..
trust your partner when he says "im going out my friends"
trust your partner he would never dare cheat on you
trust your partner that your the one and only there is no second nor third
trust your partner that he really loves you
trust takes years to build and only suspicion not proof to rip it apart.
@mohitseth (568)
• India
30 Oct 09
thanks my friend i think you are the most experienced one in the relationship.
trust plays a important role in ones life and relation should be suspicion free.happy mylotting my friend.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
5 Nov 09
Understand is key. Yu culd love and trust a person but if they don't " get" you, then the relationship is on shaky grounds. Everybody is different and each has their own point of view. but if you can see things the way yur partner does , even if you disagree, it is golden.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
29 Oct 09
..you're right .. i would like to add constant communication between partners is also important.. being open to each other will also keep both partners closer together.. Being responsible is also one because when we commit ourselves to our partner, that means we are willing to take the responsibilities of being the partner of that person.. and of course, real love.. sometimes, we exchange infatuation with love.. Infatuation comes with the physical desire but love looks deeper.. I hope you would find the right person for you.. Happy mylotting too..
@mohitseth (568)
• India
30 Oct 09
ya if you are in love than you should be communicating with your partner.communication binds the affection of you both together and one should care for each other because care shows that you love her most in this world.love is much deeper than physical desire.ya i am a search of right person for me.i hope i find her soon.happy mylotting.
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
10 Nov 09
Likely love. If you love someone, you'll be committed. If you love someone, you'll be loyal. If you love someone, you'll be truthful and trusting to them.
So how does one become loving? I would say by being Godly. You must know the true love of God in Heaven, in order to be truly loving to someone else.
It's the idea that you can only give out, what you have received yourself.