What should I do ? Give me some advices pplease .

Have you ever met the guy in person. If not how can you really say you have feelings for him. It sounds to me that he was just stringing you along and that is not a good quality in a person. If he has done it once he will do it again. The best thing is to grieve the loss and move on with your life. It is ok to feel sad just realize he wasn't the one for you.

there's only one solution for that, stop chatting with him and forget about him, it's not good to be inlove with somebody who has taken already because there will come a time that you will get hurt again and again , especially that he's just your chatmate.

You know miss Dollyswallowchang, that is really hurt because you expect something someone that you meet in just only a few months and fall in love with that guy. The only remedy for that is to forget the guy and do something inspired you more...Just always think that there are many guys out there looking for you or waiting for you... We don't know what happen tomorrow. Don't take it seriously it is better that guy telling you that early so that you cannot just hope for nothing...Hope you can find someone that really free...Have a great day!

Honestly, what you're feeling is superficial. It doesn't really exist in real time. You just can't fall in love with someone online. Falling in love consists of a lot of things - not just words (chatting). It goes farther than that - falling in love must have intimacy or touch. My advise to you is to hold back that feeling just until you get to meet in person and feel him.

Come on dear this guy was cheating on you. He was simply playing with your feelings. I do not think you should get committed to somebody without meeting him. He could turn out to be a person totally different from what you perceive him to be while chatting with him online. I do not feel you should carry on having a relationship with this person anymore. Just move on and try to find Mr.Right in person.I know it is easier said than done but at least you got to know about his double dealing quickly. Good luck!

I'm so sorry! This seems to happen more and more frequently in today's world with how often we use the internet. I would suggest finding something you enjoy, that makes you happy, and distracting yourself with that. Perhaps some hobby you haven't had time for lately and would really like to take up again. Listen to happy music. And MOST of all; try to follow your head and not your heart all the time. Our brains usually know better than our hearts do (:

You can really do nothing about this. You will just have to accept and move on and wait for the right person for you. There’s one for everyone of us out there, only time will bring that person near to you. As for this online guy, well he’s really very sweet and a true friend…he could have easily taken advantage of you but he came clean and told you about his girlfriend. You should be thankful for that and keep in touch with him as a good friend. Even good friends are very precious these days.

Had he been telling you that he was falling in love with you or had any sort of ROMANTIC feelings for you?

Online relationships or virtual lovers are common nowadays. Yes, you can find love on the web but it's risky, you should always know the limitations and take extra care for yourself and don't easily believe on what the guy is telling you. You should not let yourself fall in love with him so easily. Before you fall in love with the guy, make sure that you already know him well, search and read his profile, friend's testimonials, etc. For what he is saying, he should show you proofs. You may continue online chatting but with caution, beware because only few guys are sincere. Just like what I have said earlier, that before you fall in love, be sure that you already know the guy very well. Happy myLotting!

I met a guy online too and he said all of the right things. We were planning on meeting when his job brought him back to the States. Then I didn't hear from him for about two days and when I did he told me that he had lost his credit card and didn't know what he was going to do. Then two days later he asked me to send him some money because it would be two weeks before he received his new card. I told him I didn't have any money. It has been a month now and I have not heard a word from him. At least it happened before I met him in person. I was hurt. He was just too good to be true. Happy Mylotting

i think i know ur condition. but now, the best way i think is to have more friends in real life around u. in fact now, i dont believe any feeling between the 'strangers' (i mean the ones u know online or sth ways like so. and never meet in real life). maybe u can be good friends, but if refer to the feeling of love. just be careful. so, be careful next time. dont move ur feeling easily with someone u dont really know or haven't met. hope u will be good soon.

Hello Dollys Keeping this kind of thing in your mind can cause a serious sickness but i pray you will not fall sick, If it true that you truly love the guy, tell him you love him and he may change his mind and marry you

first of all im really sorry when reading your story.. sometimes people like to hurt each other.. i know saying are easier than done but we dont have choice to tell u..be patience in what happened to you.. just forget the guy that do this to you.. this guy dont love you with all his heart and if he do, he will not having another woman without your knowledge.. i really ashamed when man played a woman where it show that man doesnt respect woman at all but not all man do that.. just get up and face the reality, this happened maybe because he doesnt deserved you..there is more man lineup to be with you..you are lucky because this relationship doesnt last very long until you marry this guy.. so i only can said be patience and forget this guy..

I think you should just let go of him because he's obviosly a liar so I hope you know that you deserve better. There's plenty of men out there especially on the internet so you can replace him easily love is hard to forget but when you give your heart to someone who can't do the same for you then it's pointless in my opinion good luck but it's best to move on. In time he'll be nothing but a memory unless you want to hold on. Threw past experience i know he's not worth it and the lying will only get worse so beware. Be strong you can do it!

You did not mention if you were friends or lovers, meaning did he ever tell you that he loved you because you may have fallen in love with him and he may see you as a friend. now he has told you he has a girlfriend find out his intentions with her, how strong the relationship is, if he loves her or wants to leave her for you. If he still loves her try to forget him so you would not be responsible for breaking him up with his girlfriend

"This is the first man I really move true feeling to him...." Does a native speaker express himself in this way? In my eyes, the love in cyberspace seldom comes true. If you want to find a person to share the rest of your life, then go out to meet, know of someone. That's what I think.

Just know that he is no good for you, an never was, he is not worth your tears. No reason to cry because you saved yourself a lot of heartache, if you were with him he would cheat on you. The guy is no good be thankful you found out now an not later when things got more serious. Be glad he is gone, not worth your time and trouble, now you don't have to invest anymore emotions in him. Your heart hurts, but now you know this wasn't meant to be, an this guy is a dog, Go find a guy that will treat you right, there are always warning signs make sure you look for them. Like he is not around to talk to for a period of time, or he said he never got your call, or something came up. They're are better guys go find one, what's meant to be will be, this wasn't meant to be, don't waste your tears over garbage.

That is really painful. But he did not propose to you did he? Maybe you are jsut a friend to him because he has a girlfriend. You better forget your feelings for him and look for somebody who will really love you.

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HI. I understand what you feel but you should try to divert your attention to something more useful like doing household chores, or hanging out with your friends or family. By doing those things, you'll be able to gradually forget him. Move on.