Everything they say is a lie, thats a Pathological Liar.

@solared (1207)
United States
October 29, 2009 2:26pm CST
Have you ever been in a relationship with a pathological liar, they lie so well they don't even know the truth anymore. Not only do they lie about serious things they lie just to lie. They lie about what they had for dinner. Lie about where they went to school, lie about what kind of gas they put in their car. Lie about how many brothers an sisters they have, lie about what time they went to bed. Lie about taking a shower instead of a bath. Do you see where I'm going with this, they lie just to lie. If you confront them they lie some more, and refuse to admit they are wrong. IF you ask them a question they pretend not to understand what you said, so they can hurry up an make up a lie. These people often aren't in touch with reality, because they have made so many lies, they can't up with facts. So do you know any of these people if so, you should let them go, if they won't get help. If your in a relationship with one, then get them help or send them packing, they may even love you, but they can't help but to lie, can't help but to cheat they can't help the way they are they need help. If someone you know often runs off constantly, always tells stories that can't be true, gets defensive when you confront them, tries to turn things on you. Never admits fault, never keep promises, never is anywhere on time, they make you feel like you are the one, but when they don't talk to you for days, an then finally show up, then they tell the most outlandish stores. They got into a fight, they went to jail, they lost their phone, the car wouldn't start, they didn't pay their internet so it was shut off, someone stole their phone but then they found it. They had to go away for business, but why didn't they contact you....hmm They didn't get your texts they called the phone company to say the phone isn't working right. Their voice mail is full an they don't know why. Their phone dosen't get a good signal in the area they were in for a couple days. When you talk about past things, they say I never said that your not remembering it right. Their ex hacked their yahoo messenger an said some stuff that wasn't true, an thats why they don't remember. This person they may even love you and show it, they may give you all the time they have when they are around, they may buy you things, they may go out of their way to do things for you, but make no mistake they are liars, an they have no guilt for what they do, they don't see consquences, they will keep doing what they are doing until you step up an call then out. You tell them to get help if you care about them, if you tried already well then it's time to go, dosen't matter if your married if you have kids, no matter whether they love or not they will not change without help. They will ruin your life, they will cheat an lie about everything, this is a sickness a disease, beware of the fork tongued charmers they will destroy you, ruin your family an break your immediate family an friend apart. If you know someone like this get either them help, or run and never look back, they will always let you down, they will never keep promises, they will break your heart, it dosen't matter if it's a friend, a lover, a boyfriend/girlfriend, wife/husband run and never look back, either they get help, or you shut them out of your life.
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• United States
30 Oct 09
i just got out of a relationship like yours that lasted a year. i find out his first few lies in the 2nd week we were together. i guess that should have told me something. he kept things from me a lot ...(i think he thought it was not the same a lying) so i started to check up on him . i found emails to old girlfriends and him trying to meet new girls too he even tried to get with one of my best friends. i am glad she told me. still i forgave him time and time again because i loved him. eventually i realized i could not trust him at all and i didnt want to live that way anymore. i am happier now and i feel sorry for the next girl. HA!
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• Canada
29 Dec 09
Tonight my heart is broken, I have been sitting here with a grieving heart as I realize my stepson as a serious lieing problem and much more. Sure in my young adult life I have walked away from a friendship due to her lies and probably a boyfriend as well but how, tell me how, you walk away from a Son who is breaking your heart. Not because he is lieing to you but because he is lieing to himself. I am not sure he would lie about what he had for dinner or how many siblings he has but I have realized in the past weeks of him living with us that he lies about simplist things; such as what time did you get home last night. Little does he know that I have been laying in bed awake waiting for him to come home. What can I do to help him? Tonight is my light bulb moment as Oprah would say. I realize my son is in deep trouble with himself as he is living his life as one big lie.
• Canada
22 Feb 10
Still working on it.
@solared (1207)
• United States
12 Feb 10
How did that work out?
• United States
30 Oct 09
I have no patience for liars. The first time anyone lies to me ,I assume that everything they tell me from then on is a lie. It could be sunny and they say it is sunny,I'll would reach for me rain coat.If you love someone ,then why do you Need to lie to them. I couldn't and wouldn't take it! They would be out the door and if they are Really pathological,they will be truly puzzled.
@solared (1207)
• United States
30 Oct 09
LOL you would grab a raincoat now thats funny.
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@Chey1970 (1186)
• United States
29 Oct 09
Very insightful discussion solared. Nicely done. Now my opinion on it: Whether a pathological liar or just a liar in general, I couldn't be around them. I'm sorry but to be perfectly blunt about it, I have absolutely no use for them.
@solared (1207)
• United States
29 Oct 09
Well some people don't know when to let go, an some are gullible, they never see the signs. I get what your saying, but some people got to deep before they realized they want that person to get help. It's best to notice all the signs an not get involved at all.
@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
That is quite a long post about a liar. I have not met a pathological liar and I don't think I would like to meet one. But I think if someone knows such person with an illness, help must be given right away. There are psychological therapies now that aim to assist people, cure if possible, who are in such predicaments. Liars, though I abhor them, do need our sympathy and not our disgust.