Dilemma

October 29, 2009 10:47pm CST
I have Long distance relation with my girlfriend, every saturday night i always alone..it's hard. Now, i just meet a girl, she is very nice to me... I just wanna hanging ariund wih her but a still feel it's wrong......
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syankee525
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
1 Nov 09
this is one reason why long distance relationship dont work all the time, but it's nothing wrong to hang out with another girl, never know your girl might be hanging out with some other dude for real.
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arsket
@arsket (8)
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2 Nov 09
I think that a good idea. because, i really need someone who not far apart right now. And i know she can give that to me. It's make me crazy to think about this all the time...
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arsket
@arsket (8)
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2 Nov 09
i think that a good idea. because as a man i really need somone who not far apart right now and she can give that to me. I've been think about this all the time, it makes me crazy man.....
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free_man
@free_man (7330)
• United States
31 Oct 09
Hello Arsket and welcome to my lot. Sounds like your just lonely and want someone to spend time with. Are you in love with your girlfriend? If so why would you want to spend time with another woman? If your going to spend time with this other woman and don't want to seem like your cheating talk to your girlfriend and tell her how you feel. But don't do anything without letting your girlfriend know. If it feels like it is wrong then it might be wrong.
arsket
@arsket (8)
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2 Nov 09
The true is, i love my girlfriend, but now i really need her in my side. And i know that she can't give that to me. I just need her....
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free_man
@free_man (7330)
• United States
2 Nov 09
If you love this girl like you say you do then don't hang around other women get a guy friend you can hang out with. But women do tend to get a little upset when they hear their guy is hanging out with other women. So tell this other girl your in love with your girlfriend and don't need to make her mad. And stay away from her.
arsket
@arsket (8)
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3 Nov 09
Yeah, but the distance is still a problem to me. Maybe it's better if i finish my relation with her...
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adoremay
@adoremay (2065)
• Philippines
2 Nov 09
If you are not doing something wrong then it is not wrong. Then if you feel really wrong then I guess you need to stop it.
lovelyn_medrano
@lovelyn_medrano (3070)
• Philippines
4 Nov 09
You feel it is wrong because you are starting to feel something for this girl... and you cannot deny that. You will only feel the guilt if you are guilty of it. Do not break the trust of your girlfriend. It is not fair for her and to the new girl as well.